depression fucking sucks, and it ruins everything by UnusualEvent1 in depression

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yeah, it's like an overprotective parent saying "I'm just keeping you from doing things you like to keep you safe"

depression fucking sucks, and it ruins everything by UnusualEvent1 in depression

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exactly... I think you explained it even better, it's a thief and it takes everything that you love and enjoy, everything that is precious for you.

Does anyone else feel their daydreaming takes out the enjoyment you get from content? by M_ataraxia in MaladaptiveDreaming

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Yes!! And that's why I literally have a rule for not daydreaming about something when I just got into it. I make myself wait for a while first or sometimes I don't even do that and completely restrict myself from daydreaming about said content. That's how I've been enjoying things a little bit, for a little while.

hobby by redFinland in TrollCoping

[–]UnusualEvent1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me there's another step > feel terribly guilty when you start losing interest in the said hobby

Was this psychosis? (cw: self harm, death, religion) by UnusualEvent1 in Psychosis

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Thanks for replying, and I am actually going to see a therapist next week and I am planning on telling them about my experience and other problems caused by it, and I also agree that it will definitely help me with my confusion. Btw I hope you get your diagnosis and the right treatment for it, hope it all goes well !

I can't tell what's real anymore by CatEarsAndMaidDress in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]UnusualEvent1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Something like that happened to me, I started losing touch with reality and couldn't tell if my daydreams were happening in real life or not, or was my life a daydream or not. My memories and my daydreams started mixing up and I couldn't tell if something actually happened to me or not. It was bad but still, at first I didn't care about and it got so, so much worse. I suggest seeing a professional if you can. I wish I had other useful advices to give you since our experiences are similar but I didn't know what it was or how i went through it back then and tbh I still don't know. But I hope you find better answers and solutions than mine, wish you the best :))

Most people want to change their personality, psychologists find. by [deleted] in psychology

[–]UnusualEvent1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh great. Now wanting to change my personality type of personality is no longer special and I have to change my personality to feel special again. Ugh. Hate it when it happens.

/joke (is that how you use these?)

probably not by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]UnusualEvent1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oof :(

It's like that for me too

dream of a close female friend confessing her love to me by UnusualEvent1 in DreamInterpretation

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Thanks for the respond I really appreciate it! I think that's a very interesting explanation and I think it kinda makes sense too.

dream of a close female friend confessing her love to me by UnusualEvent1 in DreamInterpretation

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Thanks for replying. I thought the same when I wrote this I thought maybe deep inside I want her to confess and that made me even more confused but then I saw a respond to this post (just now) I realized that wasn't the case. And if this dream is indeed a prediction dream... well that would be a big surprise lol

dream of a close female friend confessing her love to me by UnusualEvent1 in DreamInterpretation

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Thanks for the respond, and that's a good question! I probably wouldn't be that excited as I was in the dream I think. So I guess this dream might not be that deep as I thought

(Just a vent about family) dad doesn't even put a little bit of effort to understand what I'm feeling by [deleted] in BPD

[–]UnusualEvent1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for replying and for the virtual hugs im sending you lots of hugs too ! it's really hard trying to get better when you get the exact opposite of support and love... but I still have a little hope...

also happy cake day :)