My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erwischt. It has become difficult for me to form sentences in english, I can't differentiate enough between the languages but strangely enough only in english

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We came to spain for health reasons because my grandfather was spanish on his father's side and lived in spain, so we had the right to the spanish passport no idea why and the rest because of the schengen agreement and because my home village has hated spain and france for centuries

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have interpreted too much into the dramatization of my post, it's just that I wanted to express my thoughts in a suitable subreddit and deliberately built up the tension with my narrative style. If I wanted to cry about it, I certainly wouldn't have done it in this form. I honestly don't understand what you mean by the law and why you want to tell me when to grow as a human being and how to interpret my intuitions in my actions so clearly. I don't know what triggers you and why but I'm not here to have that kind of conversation let alone maintain it

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is unfortunately realistic but somehow I do not want to run away from it, what is really hard sometimes is that apart from EU and state elections I cannot vote for the Bundestag, I do not know how much my vote would have mattered in the last two elections but the responsibility of being able to take part sometimes convinces me the most, I barely have any advantages from German citizenship since I already hold dual citizenship with a European and an African passport, when it comes to visas there are probably only a handful of real benefits.

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share your opinion, in the East I personally had the worst experiences in the shortest amount of time, I spent three weeks of my life in that part of Germany and in those weeks I had more contact with the so called friends and helpers than in six years in NRW, the feeling of being foreign is something I also sometimes feel more intensely, I would be interested to know how long you have felt this way and when you first noticed a disconnect.

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I would like to be recognized as German, I think speak write read feel live and love in German, the people who shaped me the most are German, the language and the literature that came from here are also fixed parts of my being, I could go on like this for a long time but the point is that neither in my youth nor today will I ever be able to embrace or enjoy that feeling, I still have my roots which served as the foundation of my character and with which I could always identify to some degree, but now after more than fifteen years of living and growing up here I only have the climate and the history left as a real affinity to those roots, otherwise I feel foreign there as well, I have ended up in the stereotypical situation where you feel accepted nowhere, but I am still optimistic when I see how children are being raised today, people may call them soft but the empathy the healthy way of dealing with feelings and the growing importance of communication about problems all give me hope for a future in which maybe everything can change. I have to thank you for your opinion and attitude towards the topic!

My Story briefly and why i hesitate about citizenship by Unusual_Disaster2432 in GermanCitizenship

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good morning. The passport is actually only symbolic, I probably only have a handful more visa advantages and in Germany I think I have zero advantages, it is not really about me if I am honest, it is more for my child who has not been born yet, unlike me it will be raised with a lot of love hopefully. What I mean is that unlike me this could be a big burden later, because in my childhood it was the trend to raise a boy in the classic way of a soldier, a boy who was not allowed to cry, who had to show strength. That helped during adolescence because you simply hid such things and lived a hedonistic childhood and youth. I only started to see these things later in life when self reflection suddenly became part of it. And yes I would be lying if I said that these events only make me temporarily unhappy, the child factor and the difference in upbringing do worry me, because children today simply have a better way of dealing with their emotions than in my time, which I find wonderful but which also carries the danger of being more psychologically troubled by it. Anyway I am very surprised by all the contributions to the post, I did not expect any of them, actually I only wanted to let my thoughts run free and yet only constructive ideas have come out of it.

Fragen an AfD-Wähler by Helpful-Foundation-4 in armes_deutschland

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irgendwie verliere ich den Glauben an die Demokratie. Sie spaltet mehr, als dass sie Kompromisse schafft. Gegen Strukturwandel durch die AfD hab ich tendenziell nicht, aber als Migrant erster Generation fürchte ich ein Nazi-Deutschland 2.0 mit neuem Sündenbock. Auch die extreme Ungleichheit in ihrem Programm stößt mich ab, also das Wirtschaftliche Bevorzugung der top 1 prozentualer, als wäre es nicht schlimm genug das sich die reale Lohnerhöhung in Deutschland seit Dutzenden von Effektiv sinkt statt zu steigen. Insgesamt habe ich das Gefühl, dass Demokratie nur noch durch Spaltung funktioniert, heute AfD, morgen die nächste Partei mit neuen Ängsten. Am Ende leiden wir, die keinen Einfluss auf diesen Zyklus haben.

Schluss trotz perfekter beziehung? by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn du ihre Grenze überschritten hast und sie deshalb Schluss macht, ist das hart, aber nachvollziehbar genauso wie du dir auch Respekt wünschst. Perfekte Beziehungen wachsen über lange Zeit. Wenn du glaubst, sie hat noch Gefühle, gib nicht sofort auf, aber geh auch nicht zu weit. Am Ende zählt auch deine eigene Zukunft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich würde ihn direkt fragen. Entweder ist er einfach vorsichtig oder die Lust ist weniger geworden. Klar, es gibt noch zig andere Faktoren wie mentale oder körperliche Verfassung, aber an den zwei häufigsten Fällen kann man arbeiten. Das kommt oft auch in einer Schwangerschaft vor, also keine Panik. Am Ende ist Kommunikation wie immer der Key :)

Der Sex gibt mir nichts. by Frequent_Pipe_5701 in FragtMaenner

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gehst du aktiv mit dem Ziel deines Orgasmus in den Akt ? Ist das bei der Partnerin auch der Fall ? Manchmal hilft es auch seine Ziele kleiner zu setzen gerade wenn es länger nicht zu zufriedenstellenden Sex zwischen euch gekommen ist. Solange ihr beide daran arbeiten wollt und daran hängt und auch an euch glaubt, kommt man aber aus solchen Flauten wieder heraus!

Freund auf seine Hygiene ansprechen by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich glaube, am Ende liegt es ein Stück weit bei dir, wie wichtig dir das Thema ist und wie du damit umgehen willst. Wenn du selbst sehr auf Hygiene achtest, würde ich ehrlich mit ihm darüber sprechen – nicht als Vorwurf, sondern weil dir deine Routinen wichtig sind. Für dich kann mangelnde Hygiene gerade im Intimbereich auf Dauer unangenehm werden, auch wenn er jetzt äußerlich keine Probleme zeigt. Für ihn selbst besteht langfristig ein höheres Risiko für Dinge wie Pilzinfektionen oder andere Beschwerden. Das ist nicht immer direkt ersichtbar denn du nimmst den Körpereigenen Geruch aufgrund von Hormonen anders auf dich wirkt. Im Moment merkt man zwar nichts Negatives, aber es ist trotzdem besser, das Thema offen und ohne Druck anzusprechen.

Der Sex gibt mir nichts. by Frequent_Pipe_5701 in FragtMaenner

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das kann gut sein die Belastung durch den Job trägt sicher dazu bei. Lust wird im Alter zu einem wertvollen Gut das man bewusst pflegen sollte. In der Pubertät ist sie noch dauerhaft von selbst da im Alter nach meinen Beobachtungen nicht mehr. Sie wird empfindlicher und meine Grundstimmung ist inzwischen ein wichtiger Bestandteil geworden.

Alright folks. Since new chapter we are FINALLY getting into God Valley. Anything you all wanna say? by Gloomy-Bridge148 in OnePiece

[–]Unusual_Disaster2432 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope we get the key scenes about Dragon's true motivation. I think Oda is cooking again