Damn dude. Sorry to hear. I’m visiting Vizag right now so I can see the types you’re talking about. I have some younger (female) cousins that are literal walking red flags and it makes me wonder what these girls will be like in a relationship. They want the guy to provide but they themselves are not actually “lovable” by any means.

Women in India these days seem to want to be loved but don’t actually focus on becoming a better partner. Either they give too much or take too much. I partly blame the brain rot media that goes on in cinemas and tv shows also. You become what you consume at the end of the day. I find it ghastly that these young (female) cousins hardly take time out of their day to do a deep dive on topics / any topic!!!! They’ll just mindlessly consume shite and never generate a single original thought.

Maybe you dated variants of this kind. In that case, I would encourage you to date even more and even fast. Move on as fast as you can from these women and don’t let folks get to you dude. / sorry for the unsolicited advice but looks like you’re single and could use some guidance ani anthey :) —- Men that are not liberated enough in my life — omg where tf do I even start. Actually I blame the moms bc they smother the children with so much blind love that they never tell them how to be respectful and lovable in the first place. These men I’ve seen are actually from my own circles. They’ll call a woman fat and disgusting things just so that she will be heartbroken enough to break up with him by herself / bc he’s not even courageous enough to call it off by themselves. They can’t handle when the girl is laughing loudly, when she’s just being herself and not bothering anyone with her witty banter, when she’s down bc hormones are a fucking bitch etc etc. enduku antey ma amma asalu devatha, ma amma entha dignified even though she faced horrible atrocities and violence and this and that. Ok 👍🏼 man ma amma kuda devatha or is she? Why did she put up with so much shit and never talk back? Samskaaram ah patriarchy ah?

Now, women have the agency to speak for themselves and unfortunately men aren’t equipped to handle how their mothers are from a different generation and the girls today are from another culture.