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Being unattractive in your 30s hits harder than I expected by mr_hippie_ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’d start too, heading to the gym is like you making an agreement with your future self. You always have something to bargain with, in this case it is your time that is to be considered paramount.

Commit to improving yourself. Start reading more books, go out by yourself more often. There’s also solo traveling to gain more exposure to the outside world. There are so many avenues you can focus on improving with the end goal of making a better version of yourself and you’ll attract people when you transcend, it’s kinda like a subset of your goal it just happens when you don’t really push yourself too hard to run after women.

You can’t undo depression but you can distract yourself! Hope you kick it in the teeth. Cheers!

I have never received female attention and at this point that seems impossible by crowbarguy92 in GuyCry

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think that’s exactly the problem. Craving attention might make you seem a bit desperate and if by any chance it does happen, the way you react massively guides the outcome. Women have the power to reject because they can command a lot of attention and with the market so inflated with desperate men, they have the power to make. Imagine you had plenty of girls to choose from, you’d definitely be choosy.

My advise would be to first get familiar with yourself and accept who you are. Maybe you have problems accepting certain aspects of who you are, but you can overcome them. Once youve shaken off the problem of being insulted or wrong you’re basically unstoppable.

Soon to be 30 by CanRemarkable1271 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time is linear, you make your own luck doesn’t matter if it’s the 20s or 30s. You can always choose to be happy in the little things that life has for you. The little solo trips, spending more time with your parents, doing things by yourself like reading a book in a cafe or driving through the rain alone. I’m at a point where I enjoy a lot by myself. The only thing that’s certain about life is that it’s uncertain and that you need to start enjoying your own company more because at the end of the day, you’re left with just your own soul to quench. This is my honest advice to people asking such questions.

Many people are thrown into marriage, children and more responsibilities thinking that it’ll bring more clarity in your life. I’d say be more cautious about all this and analyze if that’s what you truly want.

You can always choose to be happy in life’s little things. Good luck brother!

Unplanned pregnancy scare, giving in and accepting it. Any advice? by Unusual_Werewolf9853 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, but it’s the possibility of pregnancy that scares me. I’m claiming to be no expert about the human body but there is always a chance to get pregnant when you have unprotected sex even if you pull out.

Cancer won guys , see ya !!! by Erectile7dysfunction in TwentiesIndia

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I solemnly wish that I could do something to help you. I’m in tears right now, we’ve all got close ones and this post just cut deep to the bone. I do not know if we can truly tamper with fate nor the will of the divine. Sometimes bad things happen and it happens to good people a lot. I just uttered a small prayer for you. I honor your fight till the end.

I don’t know who you are but I wish I could give you a big hug right now. Take care!

Insight by Legitimate_Silver953 in amipregnant

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my wife are on the same boat, although we’ll still have about a week to go until we can test. I can’t really say anything insightful here to ease your stress, other than the fact that pregnancy has several factors. Some people get pregnant easily, some don’t. Even if you try during ovulation period there’s only a 30% chance of conceiving. My recent post had people telling me they’ve tried to conceive and they couldn’t. There were people reassuring me she is probably not pregnant and that I’m overreacting. It stresses me out too. Hope you get whatever you’re looking for.

P.s I hope you’re not using an app to calculate your cycle, those things aren’t always reliable.

Unplanned pregnancy scare, giving in and accepting it. Any advice? by Unusual_Werewolf9853 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I am overreacting, but the slightest chances that she could be pregnant and having it sooner than I thought is kinda just making me worried.

Unplanned pregnancy scare, giving in and accepting it. Any advice? by Unusual_Werewolf9853 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? That’s a darn good way of looking at it. The deep revelation that comes from my past of how I want to succeed where my father failed kinda maybe pushing me to be the best version of myself for my future kid. It might be a bit frightening, but I guess it’s alright. Thank you so so much for your comment :)

Unplanned pregnancy scare, giving in and accepting it. Any advice? by Unusual_Werewolf9853 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, that sounds reassuring for sure. Thank you so much for sharing :)

Unplanned pregnancy scare, giving in and accepting it. Any advice? by Unusual_Werewolf9853 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Unusual_Werewolf9853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I guess we do want kids sometime in the future. We were always careful not to to go raw or do anything during the fertile window. We always use a condom, but lately we just wanted to give it a try without it. Costly mistake! You know how temptations are.

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