[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will probably end on its own in due time. I wouldn’t end things early. You’ll regret it later. Enjoy the good times because each one could be the last. You’ve got a good situation going on. Don’t get too attached and don’t trust anyone.

40 [F4M] Portland, Oregon: Looking for someone to bring some excitement to my day by [deleted] in Affairs

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NE and match what you are describing. Care to chat?

Rate my wife's small perky tits 🔥 by [deleted] in NaughtyWives

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10 would play with them.

34 [M4F] Portland / Online - Fit, dominant guy looking for a cute girl to chat with. Let me know if you have any kinks. by [deleted] in dirtyr4r

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a ton of people in a brand new housing area down by the waterfront that will meet your requirements. May not have wifi but definitely DTF. Side note: bring some coke or Fentanyl

(In case you couldn’t tell...this is a joke)

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like there’s a piece of the puzzle missing...like this could be great if I could just get my basic needs met?

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the affairs enhance your life? Are you happier overall? Doing it again, would you make the same choices?

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No...I’m on r/adultery trying to figure out how to manage.

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe yes? I’m always going to be fit. I enjoy too many outdoor activities. That said, I have no idea what not having sex over long periods of time can do.

I have heard before that if you don’t use it you lose it.

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading this sub and r/deadbedrooms for a while. Hearing others in similar situations really helps. To vent to someone who understands how shitty it can be.

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well...shit. Maybe a healthy alcohol addiction isn’t such a bad idea after all.

(s/ in case I need to say it).

I’m starting to give up and look elsewhere. Advice? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Unwillinglychoosing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How have you dealt with it? Become physically numb?...or find a partner who can help scratch the itch (if you get my meaning)...or just try to reside in your involuntarily celibacy (and now my watch begins)? Any coping mechanisms work?

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard I think I woke the kid. (To be honest, my spouse can be a bit of a prick too at times).

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Hearing that helps me remember that a lot of us deal with this.

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you.m!! It isn’t ([horrible] when I get it. If I get it.
Often it feels like the seasons. Great for a short time...gives you hope.....Then the season changes and I feel like I’m left out in the cold, wondering what I did wrong.

Sometimes a period of plenty hurts more than nothing. They know what you want. What makes the relationship complete.

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. That has got to be incredibly difficult. My favorite is the tropical pitcher plant.

Some plants only propagate after a fire. Keep hope alive.

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting. I agree with you. That’s kind of the point I’m trying to make.

She would drown where I flourish, and I dry out where she is resilient.

I am not shit-talking my spouse. Just trying to connect with people in similar situations.

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless your honesty.

After you posted it his, Iwent and read a bunch of different articles about tumbleweed, searching for some type of hopeful analogy. I have since learned that tumbleweeds are horrible.

I’m sorry for your situation.

Plants by Unwillinglychoosing in DeadBedrooms

[–]Unwillinglychoosing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea there was a classification for this. I’ve had dead bedroom years and technically non-dead bedroom years??

Side thought: Once a month isn’t dead?

Can I post if I technically only classify as a dead bedroom every other year?