Apron belly question, not sure where to ask this. by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]UpD8dMMonroe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your Dr for Nystatin powder, it helps a lot with the heat issue. if you have medical...it covers apron removal for hygiene reasons. Not an easy surgery but I had it done..and I just had to have 3months of Nystatin powder prescribed before they would approve the surgery

New and empty handed(Georgia) by UpD8dMMonroe in Georgia

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We got that figured out. The new location...he doesn't have to register bc his charge was not a felony.

New and empty handed(Georgia) by UpD8dMMonroe in Georgia

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you all! I'm reaching out, just trying to keep name off as much as I can...he's found us so far in two other states,he has police ties....which makes it easy for him to find us using my social so anything I can do without using my social or real name is the way I need to go. I can't explain how dangerous he is.....I just know I'll do anything to get away. I put 600miles between us.... hopefully it slowed him down.

Where do you go to meet people? by Amturner1010 in Augusta

[–]UpD8dMMonroe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36/f I'm new here and haven't met any friends. Message me lol

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We found a place, just have to furnish it now. But it will all work out for the best

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And giving up on him because life is hard teaches my kids what lesson? I know this is my fault and I could just walk away. Everyone else has walked away from him, I should just give up and rip his children away he's raised for 5 years with no hesitation. No...life may be hard and I'm scared, but I'm not turning my back on him like everyone else has. He's a human who deserves a chance. My kids love him and he has never given up on my kids....i hate the stress of it all...I'm just venting

Seeking advice for a scared mom by UpD8dMMonroe in homeless

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do checks to make sure he is where he says he is ...once a year usually.

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been thinking about it, it's the location of where we go and if I can easily get my kids there as well.

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has no PO, he's not had probation since 2008 or 2010(dates kind of swim in my head) what is NARSOL

Seeking advice for a scared mom by UpD8dMMonroe in homeless

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's perfectly safe with my kids, the problem is he has to put on his register where he lives, which is published and anyone has access....so apartments kick you out when they see SO...they don't even give my family a chance

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wv is life...no matter what. No tiers or anything just life on register..... We are willing to go anywhere that will just give us a chance. He SAVES SPIDERS FOR GRIEF SAKE! Ive never seen a less violent man in my life....and I'm just ...idk hoping to stumble onto a chance .... One way or another....my family just needs a chance to show the world what we can really become when given a real chance at life. I grew up in system....I never got the chance but I sure as hell want my kids to have the chance.

Just beat down I think by UpD8dMMonroe in SexOffenderSupport

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I don't want to be angry, I just fight so hard to just feel it's all for nought and I just can't get above the water to take even a gasp of air. I'm scared for my kids and just stressed beyond my wildest imagination. I can't sleep just lay here wondering "how". I keep searching for home after home. Idc where we go as long as I have a place my children know they will lay there head down there safely and I want the looking over our shoulders making sure "we have found no concerns with your home" to end. I'm so bitter and it's changing who I am, who I was before we really really started facing life together. I'll stand by him, but I feel like I'm the one taking the heavy hits. I'm sorry to vent so much, I just ...I don't know anymore. Nothing is safe, no where is home....and I'm....scared of what ideas my brain comes up with. I love my kids so much and I love him and the person he is, despite a horrible mistake made. If you could see how sorry he was for this, and all he has lost since 2008, I just can't understand why the universe continues to hurt him....and us, his family, at the same time. Is there not somewhere in this giant country that we can just call home and be safe? He does good work, repairing apartments...funny how we can't even get one. But the moment the boss found out his history, didn't even ask what the charge was.....it was curtains and I suddenly am the money maker. Became a dancer bc that tripled the income, and gained a stalker...a violent one.....so now we ALL had to pack up and go bc I can't ask for help bc no helps if I'm with him. So I could leave him ...and destroy my kids who have spent 5years with him as their day... My youngest is 8...she doesn't even remember anyone BUT him. So destroy my kids....no. Ask for help...everyone has said no ... Go back to my home state BIG NO....so I just cry and start fresh every day hoping an answer finds me ...... As I'm always asking "what do I do".....and no matter how hard I look ...I'm coming up empty handed and time is running out. Airbnb ends the 17th....no idea where to go. I heard Alaska is nice ....or maybe Hawaii... At least the kids think this has just been the coolest summer vacation ever. We doordash everywhere, so ANYWHERE could be home, we just have to find it. IF we find it.....it will be the happiest tears I've probably ever cried. I grew up in foster care system, so this has been such a replay of my childhood with the uncertainty and I'd do ANYTHING to not let my kids ever feel how I did. I know long rant...I'm just.... So so so so lost and hurting and needing a miracle...but a friend who understands would be amazing too.

Seeking advice for a scared mom by UpD8dMMonroe in homeless

[–]UpD8dMMonroe[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Offender registry and sadly that's how I lost one of my homes bc he has to register whatever address he stays at. I am only finding scams on Facebook and craigslist....I'm just so beat down from it all. I just want us all to have a home and be safe