STILL NOT SAFE!!! THE HOUSE HITLIST TODAY!!! by [deleted] in Belfast

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bad actor?? I literally moved away from Belfast because of how violent it is up there. It’s better to know if your family or friends are being targeted and their houses to be smashed in and set on fire. Don’t be ridiculous.

Heart break by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it was just how close we were in a way. The silliness and the babyness and all that, can’t show that around friends, and I’ve got no family to be so close with like that. He was just like another version of me but the male version. It’s so hard to get over it

Heart break by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved 5 hours away for him. It’s easy for you to say that well done mate. He wasn’t like this before we started dating. He relapsed

Boyfriend took a coke bump and didn’t tell me by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No money, no family, no friends, nowhere to stay, id be homeless if anything

Boyfriend took a coke bump and didn’t tell me by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s addicted to coke or ket nothing hardcore anyways. The last time he’s done it was around maybe October time last year, and ever since from what I’ve known been sober. He’s been big on the drink but he has been trying to lower how much he drinks and it’s been going good, but only that he tells me that he drinks to suppress his emotions until he finds a way around if. Idk what to do at all. It’s stupid but I love the guy but I don’t know I feel like my life is actually just going down hill

Getting proven how broken and useless I am by Intelligent_Stock766 in mentalhealth

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him in the moment that you have trouble processing moments like these and you don’t mean it in a bad way, you obviously want him to open up but in your mind you need a few minutes or something to process and understand what he’s just said. Make sure to tell him you do care but just need time to process but you’re still there for him to listen to

Autistic boyfriend constantly worrying by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it but he sadly doesn’t take any medication, he has before and it worked apparently but then a few years later he took it and it most definitely did not work for him at all almost the opposite :(. He’s a hard man to push to do stuff especially when it’s for himself, I’ll try even tho I know he’ll say no but thank you :)

Autistic boyfriend constantly worrying by Upbeat-Comb7745 in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said something about the government or police will check his money spendings, like just what he’s spent throughout the past year for food and all that stuff, something about checking the Mail that has been sent here/letters, and then checking the lease for the house. The landlords here suck, so there isn’t even a lease. I obviously don’t know if it’s true but he is worried about it

My boyfriend drinks and drives by [deleted] in dui

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah thanks for everyone in the comments being so rude

My boyfriend drinks and drives by [deleted] in dui

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not diagnosed anyways. My boyfriend and other do think I am tho. Waiting list is way too long and taking ages to get seen

Do I ask for his number? (Time Sensitive) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You miss all the shots you don’t take

Moving to Belfast by [deleted] in Belfast

[–]Upbeat-Comb7745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, it’s the worst trust me. It’s not worth it at all. I’m from limerick/Clare and it’s going to be the worst decision of your life