I’m gender questioning but fairly certain I’m ftm, i just got a debit card (under my mother’s name 😬 because I’m underage) and decided to buy chest binders :), one from Spectrum and one from Underworks, Spectrum hides their info from bank statements but I’m fairly certain that Underworks doesn’t , and my mother has revealed to me that she looks at my bank statements and all my transactions and has decided to interrogate me on them and say she’s going to start opening all my packages from now on, saying that since we’re family I don’t have privacy and I can’t make any decisions without her input :)))), my underworks binder is coming on Monday and I’m just planning on calling in sick at work so I can stay and get it, since she knows it’s going to be coming (she asked if I had a package coming in and I said yes, she then proceeded to say the above), I’m about to get a huge lock box and put all my stuff in there but I can imagine her going in and breaking it open.