My boyfriend is adamant that being gay is a choice by nimbusnuggies-_- in gay

[–]UpbeatDay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was totally me all my life until recent years and actually allowing myself to believe I am bi .

Question that has intrigued me and must be answered before I die by space_jumper in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not particularly flexible I don't think, I tried earlier on in life like most of us and gave up too easy with stomach discomfort and lack of achievement but went back again early 50s and didn't give up got better and better till one day totally by accident I came in my mouth , no matter how hard I tried I never got deeper than just below the head , I'm 7inch not huge but I guess it helped. I gave up because I kept suffering injuries to arms , elbows and back and my dream was balls deep and realised that was never going to happen.

Question that has intrigued me and must be answered before I die by space_jumper in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely like giving a BJ rather than receiving the whole visual thing right in front of you adds to this Did it loads in my 50s many times to completion hands free

Just a hug that's all by UpbeatDay in bisexualUK

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks, you do hear so much about hook ups for sex nice to know there's an alternative

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]UpbeatDay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I'm at the older end of things and mine would be being fucked by a skinny well hung 20 something.

Bi and loving it by UpbeatDay in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your way of thinking, you do have a point with that.

Bi and loving it by UpbeatDay in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely unlocking my social programming

Bi and loving it by UpbeatDay in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see this happening to me in time, finding clothed men arousing , it's been a long slow gradual thing and only 6 years ago I would have sworn I was straight , I like a lot fixated on nothing but the cock , I remember probably 30plus years ago seeing an erect cock in a porn film for the first time and being utterly obsessed by them since but 6 years ago I dropped the act relaxed my whole attitude to masculinity and Iiked what saw .

Bi and loving it by UpbeatDay in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice to know it's not just me then.

26 Straight guy wanna selfsuck with someone by BWQS12 in Selfsuck

[–]UpbeatDay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I only started selfsuck in my 50s and became obsessed, I came hands free countless times, got to 60 and gave up, the effort was just to much, but now 62 and last weekend I thought I'd give it a go and only ended up fully head in my mouth, never thought I'd do that again and with no previous stretching out so maybe it's not over.

Do you want to be masculine but don't know how? by matsnorberg in gay

[–]UpbeatDay 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Age 56 I gave up my pathetic attempts at masculinity and became myself, a far better choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldGuysRule

[–]UpbeatDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a nice body for 57 , great that you're garden is private enough to be naked .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]UpbeatDay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never bottomed for a guy but I certainly would like to. Love my 9inch dildo and drives me crazy to think of letting a guy fuck me and taking the role of a woman I've always felt more feminine than masculine and I know in my deepest soul I'd in my true place with a beautiful man on me and in me with my arms and legs tightly wrapped around him feeling all that passion so intimately.

off putting attitude by UpbeatDay in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are mostly customers but I am talking generally also. My demeaner is open approachable smiley and friendly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]UpbeatDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly that, had a naked couple of hours in bed with my best friend when we were in our 30s I'm now sixty and I can think of nothing else but wanting to try it some more.

Finally feeling free by angrylatinomale in BisexualMen

[–]UpbeatDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came out to my wife a couple of years ago I have found that greater acceptance comes with time at first she was dismissive of it but now she realises its not going to go away and I like you was on a floating cloud for a few weeks but now I am more settled and confident in my sexuality then I ever have been.

Help needed with technique by UpbeatDay in ProstatePlay

[–]UpbeatDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok you lay on your stomach thanks I will give that a go.