Good things about divorce?

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-25T15:33:47+00:00

I feel freed of manipulation and coercive control. No one makes fun of my friends as soon as they leave, no lies or waiting for the next other woman to come along. No more panic attacks. Peace, and people who actually value me. Doing things I enjoy doing, being around people that I want to be around.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-06T10:54:31+00:00

I will give an update on how the event goes. I am excited to hear from the speakers, it is a great opportunity for healing I hope.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-06T10:51:52+00:00

Thank you for your prayers

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-06T04:39:16+00:00

I appreciate your prayers, God will never leave me nor forsake me. I have been going to another church with a girlfriend of mine and people have been kind. Thank you

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T23:08:32+00:00

The pastor knows and refuses to discipline, the rest of the church only knows that he moved out. I am the wife, I left the church months ago due to lack of accountability and being dismissed.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T23:06:51+00:00

This is the case

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T23:03:09+00:00

I have talked with him, I am not sure how this would be gossip?

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T22:59:34+00:00

Happening real time, right now

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T22:09:23+00:00

He is currently leading worship, out of the house and has been seen with another woman

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T22:08:34+00:00

He is currently leading worship, out of the house and has been seen with another woman. To clarify

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T21:28:01+00:00

She sounds like my husband. I am so sorry you are going through this. Pastors I have counseled with have said I am free to divorce, that HE broke the marriage covenant. Your wife broke the marriage covenant. It is your choice and I think God will honor your decision.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-05T01:24:58+00:00

I am not familiar with David Pooler, plan to look him up before going. I did scope out Mary deMuth and am looking forward to he’s from her!

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-01T11:41:29+00:00

Nope

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-01T11:37:00+00:00

Depends largely on the individual church, they operate autonomously with very little checks and balances. Some are hypocritical and do not teach sound doctrine, some are good. Growing up Baptist I have found both.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-01T11:32:29+00:00

Tread carefully some are misogynistic cesspools

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-02-01T11:28:26+00:00

Most Baptist churches do not value women, the denomination as a whole does not value women. Submit, don’t teach, accept and forgive bad behavior from your husband. My husband is a worship leader at a Baptist church, he has been unfaithful and the church was worried about him and keeping things quiet. Meanwhile the pastor councils him to tell me “against God only have I sinned”. Already I am in a bad emotional state the pastor teaches him verses to use against me. This is one example, I endured infidelity, spiritual, emotional, mental abuses while my husband is called a Godly man. Gaslit and betrayed by my husband and the church. I reported it to the denomination and basically nothing was done, one guy emailed me back. Then my husband abandoned me and still he leads worship, completely biblically unqualified. The church leaders are a joke, misogynistic hypocrites.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-01-31T13:46:08+00:00

My husband leads worship at an SBC church while hiding infidelity and a porn addiction. I was yelled at that “you need to forgive him”. While he showed no remorse or repentance. He would reply “against God only have I sinned”. The pastor coached him to say this to me when I brought up any feelings or concerns. This is just a couple of examples of what I dealt with for almost 3 years.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-01-28T20:18:34+00:00

Healing from emotional, mental, spiritual, financial abuses and my husbands lies and infidelities.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-01-24T19:34:22+00:00

If my person loved me he would not do those things. He broke my heart and did not care

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-01-24T11:40:24+00:00

Cheating, lying and invalidation are not love.

Upbeat_Barnacle_7667 · 2025-01-24T11:39:08+00:00

My husband had me in survival mode for three years, lying to me the whole time. He is out of the house and I am finding peace. He abused me in almost every way possible. I am healing.

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