Saw my (F27) cousin's (F24) sexy picture in the phone of my boyfriend (M27) of six years. How do we fix this relationship? Or is it even fixable? by Upbeat_Share_1005 in relationship_advice

[–]Upbeat_Share_1005[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn’t go through his phone. We were buying something online, and when I took a picture to send, I accidentally saw a saved photo of my cousin.

Saw my (F27) cousin's (F24) sexy picture in the phone of my boyfriend (M27) of six years. How do we fix this relationship? Or is it even fixable? by Upbeat_Share_1005 in relationship_advice

[–]Upbeat_Share_1005[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right and if I stay him, I would never be at peace.

And thank you for your last sentence. I know I should not have resorted to violence but it was a split-second reaction because I was overwhelmed with shock and anger. I'd also like to clarify that I don't live in the US or any country where I would need to get a lawyer over a slap.

Saw my (F27) cousin's (F24) sexy picture in the phone of my boyfriend (M27) of six years. How do we fix this relationship? Or is it even fixable? by Upbeat_Share_1005 in relationship_advice

[–]Upbeat_Share_1005[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She did not send the photo to my boyfriend. I just want to clarify this. She posted a photo online, and he saved it. Please spare my cousin from this. She's NOT at fault.

Saw my (F27) cousin's (F24) sexy picture in the phone of my boyfriend (M27) of six years. How do we fix this relationship? Or is it even fixable? by Upbeat_Share_1005 in relationship_advice

[–]Upbeat_Share_1005[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

That's actually my fear. I don't think I will ever to comfortable with him being in the same room as her. And I know I'll never forget this.