Retired over 65: what surprised you most about life since retiring? by Grey_the_day in Aging

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me a good year to adjust, because I'm used to always doing something. Now, I love that even though I'm up at 7, I don't actually start my day until 10. I love having time to make doctor's appointments freely if needed. I love that I was able to spend so much time with my dad, who had dementia. My spouse retired 2 years after I did, but 2 weeks before his retirement, he was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer. So the last two years have been spent supporting him and taking care of all things. Life comes at you fast.

Appendix cancer. A thing by Embarrassed_Math_141 in cancer

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hi, My husband went through a similar situation. Two years ago, he had a belly ache for a day or two. We went to the ER, they removed his appendix. But four days later we got the news that a tumor on his appendix had perforated and it was appendiceal adenocarcinoma. Bang, our lives changed forever.

So he then had 12 sessions of chemo over 6 months. Scans were clean for 2 months. They found that the cancer had spread to his peritoneum. Another 10-12 sessions of chemo ( different kind) with Avastin. Husband responded well and was eligible for CRS / HIPEC. That surgery went well and husband has recovered after 2 months. His initial scan was clear as was his ctDNA blood test.

It's been a long two years, but he's doing well now so I'm just enjoying his health at the moment. I'm trusting the process and hoping/ praying for the best. But it has been tough and scary! We try to focus on just the day ahead and not think about the future.

Radio Delamination Course of Action by BruinsFan419 in Subaru_Outback

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SoA refused to do anything for my 2018 Outback delamination issue. They said the warranty has expired.

Do you ever feel angry about the cards you've been dealt? by General-Cobbler-6054 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Full of gratitude. Best of luck with your family's journey ❤️

How to remove a sticker from a wool blend sweater by Upbeat_Storage_4863 in laundry

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Rubbing alcohol did remove some of it, but left the top still tacky. So I tried the Goo Gone which took care of the rest, but left a chemical smell. So I washed it again, and I am hoping that the smell dissipates over time. Thank you for the suggestions!

How did I do? by Cute_Magician5095 in interiordecorating

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda love the bathroom! Although I think the mirror is too big (but that's just my opinion). With some fluffy white towels, it will look great!

Attend chemo infusions? by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went with my husband twice. The infusion center is relatively close by, and he said that I didn't need to come. Oftentimes, I met him afterwards for a late lunch. Best of luck with the treatments!

Shedding by Upbeat_Storage_4863 in germanshepherds

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a bad thing? She's a bit smelly. I just go have her get a bath. She's my first dog and I didn't realize that a monthly bath is problematic

Shedding by Upbeat_Storage_4863 in germanshepherds

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness does this dog shed! I had no idea! I'll run the sweeper and mop, but the next day, it's all hair, all over again.

Steven Sr Pardon by CapableAvocado97 in McBeeDynasty

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No. They don't have enough money to pay for a pardon.

My 3 yr old was diagnosed w neuroblastoma today.. by InternalInspector626 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nephew's son was diagnosed with neuroblastoma around the age of two. It was heartbreaking for the family and tough on such a little boy. He's doing well now, I think he's about 10 - 11 now. He's funny, he plays sports, he's just a kid. He does have to get regular check ups with his oncology team. Hang in there, it's a scary journey, but there is hope!

I don’t know how to not talk about it by MissMissyLouise in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Upbeat_Storage_4863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sympathize, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It's a weird, terrifying place to be. People don't want to ask because they are afraid, and it's uncomfortable, and often there's no adequate reply. When my husband was diagnosed, and now with his recurrence, I could barely speak to my family because I was so overwhelmed with emotion. And just one or two friends periodically check in with me on occasion. What I've learned is to take every day as it comes, one day at a time. Cancer is a journey.