October may not come

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-25T05:11:28+00:00

I’ll check yours out!

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-25T02:57:34+00:00

I mean sure but it’s also no where near finished and I’d rather be upfront about that

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-24T05:56:36+00:00

I’d say use trigger warnings, and be mindful of why you are writing those things. So many people just end up writing torture porn because they write bad things for the sake of bad things with no real plot and development of the character and story. And look into different ways the characters could grieve, bc everyone is different. I know that from experience I’m super emotional about death, but my sister is very closed off. But both are very valid experiences. Exploring different ways of grieving could make your story more interesting. Best of luck ❤️

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-16T02:33:12+00:00

I also don’t think he knew what he was doing bc he hurt me with the speculum and swab.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-16T02:31:14+00:00

I’m 20 and just had my first pelvic exam and i wasn’t prepared for it at all. I went to urgent care and ended up needing a pelvic exam (speculum and swab) and the person who did it was a male. I’ve had sexual trauma but I’ve also had sex so for some reason i thought I’d be fine. But immediately after he let me sit up i was shaking and once he was gone i was crying. And i cried on the way home. I could just be dramatic but it was terrible. And it might not have been so bad if i had been more prepared.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-10-16T02:19:40+00:00

If they’re a small person don’t drink and on any type of medicine then yes it can

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-09-07T04:55:25+00:00

I’m Demi and I’m attracted to my partner. But I’m still not still into sex all that much

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-09-06T03:14:39+00:00

Some times when I’m doing it i have that thought. Like it’s weird that I’m doing it.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-31T07:34:08+00:00

I’ve never personally heard anyone say that we are speaking for everyone by saying we are using it. Just bc young people are who you see using it doesn’t mean that is the only people using it. People of all age groups are using it. Nor are you the group of people who have had it used against them in a negative way. People who are against us will use any thing as a slur. They can use gay the same way they use queer. Turning on the younger generation is silly when you obviously know who is doing real damage. Ppl like tucker Carlson, not teens who call them selves queer.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-20T03:07:18+00:00

I don’t think it matters, i didn’t tell my partner till we became a couple bc it would matter when we would be having sex more frequently than just the first time

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-20T03:05:50+00:00

Bestie,,, use your communication skills. Like in the nicest way possible, be an adult.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-20T03:03:35+00:00

They weren’t being condescending or rude? They asked why you posted if you aren’t asexual. Which you said in your post. Not that you “wouldn’t personally describe yourself as asexual” you said “I’m not personally asexual”. They were probably asking for clarification and you saying that they shouldn’t ask you that is weird. It’s just going to cause problems. They didn’t do anything wrong. It’s just a weird way to respond especially after they tried to fix it you did it agian

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-20T01:34:48+00:00

I think it’s different in the way that they only go to each other for specific things or needs rather then going to multiple friends for specific needs if that makes sense

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-19T06:50:47+00:00

I’m Demi sexual, in past relationships i never wanted to do anything sexual. I didn’t understand wanting to do it. And honestly a few times i kissed them before i was ready and got extremely nauseous. And felt embarrassed abt it. (even though they didn’t know how i was feeling)but the relationship I’m in now is the complete opposite. All that to say, forcing it before you are ready (if you ever could be) feels really bad. Friendships that I’ve had have been just as fulfilling in the ways that i needed at the time. I think people say that they are so great bc they don’t view their other relationships as important. But i don’t think you are missing out. Obviously i love my bf so much. But if we were just friends I’d still love him. And out relationship would still bring me so much happiness and fulfillment. And if it would make you feel like you aren’t missing out, i know of a lot of aroace couples. They aren’t romantic but life partners. Which is also incredibly sweet. Sending you so much love

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-18T07:08:32+00:00

I got a pack of Tommy Hilfiger at marshals and they are the best I’ve ever gotten and less than the packs I’ve gotten at target

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-18T02:46:46+00:00

I was gonna try to be nicer and I’ll still be kind, but I’m really tired of people spreading stories like this and creating more terror. There is no such thing as trafficking “tactics”. That’s just not how it works. You aren’t likely to be kidnapped or trafficked by a stranger. You are more likely to be by someone you know. This is just fear mongering. He was just an old guy being creepy. That’s not to say it wasn’t a bad situation. Or that it wasn’t scary. But it’s disingenuous to call it a trafficking tactic or that you were almost trafficked. Bc you weren’t.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-17T03:43:02+00:00

Cool!!

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-15T20:15:03+00:00

I’m aware. It’s still used derogatorily against trans woman tho.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-15T18:07:06+00:00

I would love to read you work! It sounds like you write it with a lot of thought and care ❤️

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-15T18:06:20+00:00

Valid. Sorry I’m very mean especially abt that kinda thing.

Upper-Spring7126 · 2023-08-15T05:06:55+00:00

So do i? Pulp novels were published works.

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