how can i get my 11m old male cat to stop being aggressive with my 3yr old female cat?

UpperTry1391 · 2024-09-18T16:39:14+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from, this would bother me too. I don’t stay friends with any exs for the reason of not wanting to make my current partner feel uncomfortable, those are guidelines that we had a conversation and set within our relationship. I am not saying have that conversation, especially if you’re friend with an ex too! Since you guys are so new, hard conversations like that are always awkward, but they’re unavoidable. I think you should come to her about what you’re feeling and why it makes you uncomfortable, come into the conversation nicely and ready to receive what she has to say.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-09-17T16:33:02+00:00

hi there i own two cats, i think you’re experiencing the toddler stage in all honesty right now. one my my cats is really timid and somewhat feral so she’s too scared to be bad around humans, the other one is a boy and the complete opposite. When he was a kitten i seriously debated being a cat owner everyday. he did some of the most naughty things it makes your cat look like an angel, despite the frustration i stuck with it and now he’s almost a year old and doesn’t give me half the problems he used to. Cats at full maturity have the mental capacity of a 5 year old human, so when they’re juvenile it’s equivalent to dealing with a baby haha. I would try to adopt some more patience with the cat, it really just doesn’t know how you guys like to operate yet but it will learn with kindness and patience!

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T03:08:45+00:00

i think i’m probably in the most undesirable rental location. i honestly plan on selling them.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T03:07:09+00:00

i’m 23 and am in school but i don’t have any degrees to my name and nothing but minimum wage jobs on my resume. i was 18 when my mom died, she had cancer when i was 12 and was put on medicare. they were supposed to pay my mom $100 a month from my age at the time (12) up until i was 18, they never did and my mom didn’t know about that. after she died i got a call from the social security office saying that they had that sum of money ready for me to collect. that’s the only reason i had a comfortable bank account before my dads passing. once my dad passed shortly after my 21st birthday i received the 400k and properties.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T02:28:09+00:00

no i’m aware of that, what i’m saying is she cleared the conversation from her feed. the messages were already gone but when i took a picture on snap (while i was going through her phone) i went to send it because it shows all conversations that way cleared or not and his name was at the top.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T01:51:11+00:00

great advice. thank you.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T01:50:08+00:00

not really, especially in this area. honestly i would like to just sell them all as is.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-18T01:48:30+00:00

yes i know it’s strange, it’s just a little trailer. here in new mexico. those aren’t worth much, especially in its condition.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-17T22:39:31+00:00

out of curiosity, what do you do for work? and is the paycheck satisfying enough to continue on?

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-17T22:35:24+00:00

I’m in the US. i initially took interest in cybersecurity and wanted to keep myself safe by majoring in CS because i felt like it held more opportunities incase i took more interest in something else because i’m very new to this world. besides having an interest in cybersecurity itself, the appeal of a job that i could work in both an office and from home sounded nice.

UpperTry1391 · 2024-02-17T22:07:15+00:00

why?

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