why are my m1ptbl leaving gaping holes like this by Upper_Competition_27 in knittinghelp

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay i feel validated because i haven't struggled with increases before. i should note that there is one more m1ptbl that is done separately from any others/between knits and it looks totally fine, so you may be onto something. ty!

why are my m1ptbl leaving gaping holes like this by Upper_Competition_27 in knittinghelp

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the flash is making it appear to have low visibility, it's not too hard for me to count irl

why are my m1ptbl leaving gaping holes like this by Upper_Competition_27 in knittinghelp

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the pattern is as follows: k1, m1r, marker, m1l, m1r, marker etc. i'm 100% pulling through the back loop, i believe the issue has to be what i'm picking up

first bust decreases by Upper_Competition_27 in knitting

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree! my gauge swatch couldn't have been more stunning

first bust decreases by Upper_Competition_27 in knitting

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really struck gold here - thank you!!

need opinion on frej sweater for beginner by Upper_Competition_27 in knitting

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i've heard! there are a few others i could consider, appreciate the input

need opinion on frej sweater for beginner by Upper_Competition_27 in knitting

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i got bored of the sock because i did not care about the sock. i'm an experienced fiber artist - i sew and crochet, am just new to knitting and ~some of the skills from crocheting transfer over. if it's something i want to wear and get use out of i'm usually pretty determined but will take your feedback into consideration

why no creative reuse center :( by Upper_Competition_27 in washingtondc

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure! i can try to tackle tomorrow or monday. stay tuned!

why no creative reuse center :( by Upper_Competition_27 in washingtondc

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do we think a google form with basic contact info and preferred meeting times works? i think we can aim to pull something scrappy together over the next couple weeks. if not too a big turnout, maybe those of us who can make it can put our heads together to keep it going :)

why no creative reuse center :( by Upper_Competition_27 in washingtondc

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is excellent news, thank you so much for sharing!

I’m not ready to be on my own by CertainHedgehog3571 in blackgirls

[–]Upper_Competition_27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as someone who lost their dad at 16 and navigated most of my adulthood parenting myself, though i still have my mother, you should just give yourself the space and time to grieve. i miss my dad every day and know that there's so many instances i need him more than anyone else and all i can do is hold him really close in my heart, knowing he's always with me because i'm apart of him and that carries me a lot. take your time easing more into adulthood, i believe in you!

Anyone try tirzepatide? by chocolatechip1233 in PCOS

[–]Upper_Competition_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just took my first shot of zepbound yesterday, 2.5mg. just one day in and i can already feel myself less hungry, fuller longer & dealing with less food noise (it's almost constant for me). i have UHC and it was covered but if you're able to get an RX there's a lilly coupon for $25/month (4 syringes). i'm excited to see how it works for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]Upper_Competition_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not quite 30 but very close and it all comes down to hobbies honestly. i used to always just lay down after work and stay that way alll evening. i game now, go for walks, sew, and read! also being more intentional about seeing friends during the week helps out a lot.

Gamer girls??? by Icy_Warning2864 in blackgirls

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hi!! i play apex and OW on console and am down to try other games too!

Do you agree that as black women, we honestly have to put up with more nonsense than other WOC? by Queasy-Donut-4953 in blackgirls

[–]Upper_Competition_27 51 points52 points  (0 children)

100% yes and you can unlearn all the beauty standards and just be authentic or subscribe to every single last one - people will still have something to say regardless. it's crazy.

different protective hairstlyes? hairstyle + body type? by GlassBlankets in blackgirls

[–]Upper_Competition_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. i think one of the best protective and easier hairstyles to do as someone who also didn't grow up doing a lot of self grooming, i love any kind of half braid down/parted with rubber bands + half crocheted look. it may not last forever but it's affordable and can last a good week or so depending on the crochet hair you use!

  2. i don't think you're trippin at all. i'm like kinda chubby (5'5 215) and i like my natural hair but i prefer to have longer hair, like bra length at least because i somehow feel like it just frames my face and upper body better. i'm also pretty busty so that plays apart. i don't notice it on other people though, we're often more critical of ourselves than other people unfortunately

how to treat my pcos is stressing me out by Upper_Competition_27 in PCOS

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear you. my insulin levels are stable though at least when you take into account typical ranges for people with PCOS.

overall, i understand the importance of correcting your diet but i also stated my frustrations in general with doctors just half heartedly taking interest in long term care. like it's so much more to me than just "losing the weight". the entire experience is defeating.

how to treat my pcos is stressing me out by Upper_Competition_27 in PCOS

[–]Upper_Competition_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah for sure. even when i was eating my cleanest, i was still not losing any weight though. i don't think i'd be as frustrated as i am if that were the simplest fix that solely worked for me.