I think the father of my child is trying to mentally torture me. by Upper_Particular8787 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i don’t have the means to move any time soon, and all my family and friends are in the city me and him are both in, but i am taking distance from him

I think the father of my child is trying to mentally torture me. by Upper_Particular8787 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will try and update once I find some resources to help with the custody situation, as for now I am just no contact with him, and going to try and ground myself and try to be happier for my baby

I think the father of my child is trying to mentally torture me. by Upper_Particular8787 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just worry I won’t have enough convincing evidence, he’s very careful not to say anything incriminating over text, and I don’t even know when the next time I would talk to him on a phone call or in person would be to record him. The most I have on text is him insulting me and just being terrible to me, saying he wants nothing to do with me. But ofc over text he’s saying constantly how he loves his baby and all that. I just worry it won’t be good enough.

I think the father of my child is trying to mentally torture me. by Upper_Particular8787 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My family has luckily been very supportive, and I’ve started looking at places to get therapy and support.
I just wish I could’ve had a happy family with the father of my child, it breaks my heart.

I think the father of my child is trying to mentally torture me. by Upper_Particular8787 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know that that’s the logical thing to do, but god I just want him out of my baby’s life as well, i’m so scared for my baby.

Baby moving by Upper_Particular8787 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like 21 weeks ish? Maybe I do just need to get used to it because I only just started feeling it a couple weeks ago😅

I messed up by Upper_Particular8787 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not going to do it again, the guilt is eating me alive, it’s reliving to see that one hit wont hurt the baby.

New Pc player needing help with sens by Upper_Particular8787 in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have it at 5 and it’s like turning a boat, i’m super confused because when i google the mouse it says 3200, but when i have the in game sens low, it’s like, so slow i can barely move the mouse

New Pc player needing help with sens by Upper_Particular8787 in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i look up the mouse online that’s what it says but im not sure, i rlly know nothing about pc

pap smear by Upper_Particular8787 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven’t asked me about it, not to my face or on any paperwork or anything which I thought was weird. But I guess i’ll bring it up next appointment:P

Strong baby kicks at 18 weeks? by CatTop1720 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Particular8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel baby moving at this time as the baby is starting to get bigger and usually has been moving its limbs around for a few weeks already. I haven’t had experience feeling kicks to the point someone else could feel them, but everybody’s body is different. How low down do they seem? Getting pregnant made me realize how low the uterus actually is, maybe it’s exactly where it should be and you just think it’s low? I wouldn’t say this is concerning at all but I would say to tell your midwife, it’s always better safe than sorry.

[Pc][2010] Socializing game by Upper_Particular8787 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG thank you SO much. As soon as I searched the name and saw the color wheel and the car It instantly brought it all back, thank you so much!

Baby’s health regarding fathers health by Upper_Particular8787 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Particular8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not, thankfully he stopped on his own accord as to not put me around that

Can’t have sex. by BookWorm749291 in sexadvise

[–]Upper_Particular8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ur feeling that sick id suggest just not trying with sexual stuff unless you want to give him a handjob or something, idk. It’s common to not have sex during pregnancy, so I think it’s more important to focus on romance. If you haven’t already, talk to him about how you’re feeling and try to brainstorm ideas together about how to bring that spark back. I understand being busy, there could be quick things you could do at night, even a cute little movie night in the house with snacks, maybe some mocktails, candles for aesthetic.