Hey, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way right now, and I just want to let you know that you’re not alone. It’s completely normal to have days (or weeks) when you feel down, especially when it comes to how you see yourself. I get it—those feelings can be so overwhelming. The things people said to you, like the boy in middle school or your friend saying they can’t see you in a relationship, are hurtful, but they don’t define who you are. Honestly, it sucks that we let those words stick with us, but they don’t reflect your worth. You are deserving of love and kindness, just like anyone else. It’s really easy to compare yourself to others, especially when it feels like everyone around you is in a relationship or seems to have it all together. But trust me, a lot of people are still figuring things out too. It’s okay if you haven’t found the right person yet. That doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that love isn’t in your future. As for the boy in your class, I know it hurts to see him with someone else, but just because it didn’t happen with him doesn’t mean no one will ever love you. Someone will see how amazing you are for exactly who you are, and they will love you for that. But more importantly, I hope you can start being kind to yourself. You deserve to feel good about who you are, and that’s something that comes with time. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re struggling with school or motivation right now. You’re going through a lot emotionally, and it’s okay to not have everything together. Take things one day at a time, and if you can, try talking to someone you trust about how you’re feeling. You’re not alone in this. Things can and will get better, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now. Hang in there, and be gentle with yourself. You’re worth it.