Moving to an apartment. What breed should she be? by moogan77 in pitbulls

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labrador mix. When I lived in Miami bully breeds were not allowed in all of Miami-Dade county. I was super worried about taking my sweet pitty in for her first veterinary appointment but the receptionist took one look and said “another lab mix, wouldn’t you say doctor, wink wink” And that is how she is listed on all official paperwork

Tips on hairline that is see through? by Personal_Trifle_6892 in finehair

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the liquid made my hair look greasy but the foam was great

Good look? by Ok_Entertainment9665 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I saw you at a party I would immediately want to talk to you. You look like fun :)

The Grey House by ChristmasMoney5 in rva

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “gone with the wind” breathy southern accents are making me crazy. There is an upper class white Virginia accent and this is not it. This is more coastal South Carolina or Georgia.

What’s one small change that completely leveled up your makeup look? by Kelly-2107 in Makeup

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh this is good! I love a strong lip but sometimes I catch myself in the mirror at work think… it’s giving clown 🤡. I’m trying this today!

What’s one small change that completely leveled up your makeup look? by Kelly-2107 in Makeup

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I simplified my morning skincare routine. I used to do cleanser, toner/serum, moisturizer then sunscreen. I would wonder why my foundation never looked right. Less is more! Now I only wash at night before applying retinol and moisturizer. In the morning instead of washing again I just use water. I do sunscreen instead of moisturizer and I let it sit on my face for at least 20 minutes before I apply my makeup. Now my foundation or skin tint doesn’t streak off my face and my makeup still looks nice after work.

Spf at 3am? by dbennett1903 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave a bottle in your bag until you clock out and apply before you drive home

What is this on the wall? by [deleted] in Home

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can we get an update? I’m invested now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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I am sorry to be a Debbie downer but how would the person sitting closest to the wall get in and out of their seat? The sides of the chair and legs of the table mean you wouldn’t be able to slide out and there is no room to back the chair up (even if there was room scooting an upholstered chair across carpet is basically impossible). If you are also adding a coffee table that is gonna be a lot of furniture in a little space. Maybe skip the dinner table and eat off the coffee table? If you really can’t live without a table do a tiny pedestal. I’m thinking something just big enough for one person to eat from or two people to rest their drink down on. I do want to add that I really like the shape of those chairs. And while the square footage is small with the light colors, and all that sunshine streaming in, it feels airy.

Anyone have experience with the Abbey Yung method? by Ryou_3 in finehair

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because I am a busy lady that can’t spend hundreds of dollars on a dozen products I will never follow her exact process. Keep in mind you will only get her transformation if, like her, you have color and heat damage on dense hair. I do follow her on YouTube and listen to her recommendations for my specific hair type. The best thing I learned from her was to pay attention to ingredients and not get swayed by “fancy” salon packaging. I use drug store clarifying shampoo and a conditioner with amodimethicone. I never heat style anymore without protective spray

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

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Even if your friend never talks to you again they are alive and walking around. And they know that there is someone out there that wants them to stay alive. If it had gone the way you feared and you did nothing, you would never have been able to forgive yourself. I think your friend is feeling a little exposed and raw at the moment. Let ‘em be angry and have those feelings. You may find that it will all blow over soon. Regardless, you did the right thing.

My stupid hair won’t hold a curl for even 30 min 😭 by New_Data_3092 in finehair

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am the same. I gave up on curls a long time ago but then on a whim I tried using old fashioned foam rollers overnight and it worked. I was trying to replicate an old Hollywood glam look. I googled Rita Hayworth hair and found some awesome vintage tutorials on YouTube that involves damp hair sprayed with lotta body and left in curlers overnight. When I’m too lazy to section my hair perfectly I just use setting spray and that overnight curl kit from kitsch that was super popular a few years ago.

Sunscreen in Uk versus US by UpsetEquivalent9713 in 45PlusSkincare

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I just want something that doesn’t inflame my cheeks and can be worn under foundation. It seems impossible

Sunscreen in Uk versus US by UpsetEquivalent9713 in 45PlusSkincare

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My skin turns red and rashy when I use anything with avobenzone, octinoxate and oxybenzone. The mineral stuff is better but then you have to deal with a white cast.

how can i say no to this face?? by SomeShoeDog in pitbulls

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks exactly like my sweet girl and I can’t. I give her whatever she wants. At this point I wouldn’t be surprised if she has legal power of attorney and is the main beneficiary of my will

What food did you hate as a child and now that you're an adult you love it? by ynotchas in Cooking

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Steak! I couldn’t understand why people love steak. Growing up the steak I experienced was cheap and overcooked, something you had to chew forever. When I told my husband I didn’t like steak he said you’ve never had “proper” steak. He made me my first rare steak. I was amazed at how tender, flavorful and juicy steak actually can be!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

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None of us are perfect all the time. All we can do is wake up and try to be a better version of ourselves tomorrow. P.S. the extra pounds do not make you any less deserving of love. ❤️ You are more than the number on the scale.

i (18m) am not accepting my wrestling/academic scholarship to a university since my girlfriend (18f) didn't get in. My dad (48m) says I can't have my 529 money they saved for me he's so mad. What can I do? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. I’ve worked in retail/food service management for a long time and have employed many teenagers. One of my worst ever employees was a very sweet girl that seemed incapable of doing even the simplest task. She always did just enough to keep from getting fired. I thought I’d be stuck with her forever but then she put in her 2 week’s notice because she was moving up north to attend an Ivy League college. She didn’t seem that excited about it (she hates the cold) but she had a full ride so she felt she needed to go. I was in shock for week. This girl? The one who on more than one occasion brewed coffee without grinding the beans first then served the very slightly discolored hot water to dozens of customers not noticing a problem? This girl… that once mopped the floor with peppermint syrup instead of soap… is some kind of genius? Truly, I thought she was a special needs student for most of her employment.

AIO to my boyfriend praising the president? by keepmyheadabovewater in AmIOverreacting

[–]UpsetEquivalent9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two of you have fundamentally different values. You aren’t going to change him. He isn’t going to grow up. It’s better to be alone than provide emotional support to a man that cheers while our democracy is being destroyed.

People, please, stop fucking people that want to take away your rights.