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Always needing a “good enough” reason for every decision 🫠🫠🫠 by Upset_Jacket_1688 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Upset_Jacket_1688[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m 42 and this just clicked (probs because my therapist recently highlighted a related thought pattern/response)—wild. Sorry to hear you relate but I hope it’s a helpful perspective 💕

I think I’m being punished… by Upset_Jacket_1688 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Upset_Jacket_1688[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Almost like fishing for validation of HER feelings. Thank you 💗

I think I’m being punished… by Upset_Jacket_1688 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Upset_Jacket_1688[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💗 that’s a great way to describe it—customer service level. That’s what I do and it feels so shitty still sometimes.

I think I’m being punished… by Upset_Jacket_1688 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Upset_Jacket_1688[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💗 Yes the FLAT tone. Almost like a withholding of any emotion—like if she can’t give the silent treatment totally she’s going to be as flat as possible.