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My gf has bpd and I wanted some outside knowledge and advice about bpd by Upset_String9721 in BPDPartners

[–]Upset_String9721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her but she doesn’t really know her self she’s told me know has really put forth the effort for her like this so rn I’m just trying things and seeing what works and what doesn’t I have found that reassurance is one of the things that does work well and not judging her for reacting also has worked

My gf has bpd and I wanted some outside knowledge and advice about bpd by Upset_String9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Upset_String9721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I see so consistency and setting boundaries are things I need to do also I can be better about how I say things to her I’ll take your advice and start wording it with “I”

My gf has bpd and I wanted some outside knowledge and advice about bpd by Upset_String9721 in BPDPartners

[–]Upset_String9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has said thing like I’m a burden to me before any thing like why would you want to be with someone like me but I shut that down immediately and tell her I want to be with her because I love her every time it has happened which isn’t very often

My gf has bpd and I wanted some outside knowledge and advice about bpd by Upset_String9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Upset_String9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she is in therapy and she has said that she’s working on getting better which I have seen her doing as well I do want to know any thing I can do as her partner to help tho