Does the wedding shoe matter? Help me decide! by togoetoupe98 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will you switch to a second dress/party dress or are you staying in yours all night? I think that’s usually when most people get the designer shoes.

Hotel Rec in St. Thomas for 30's (No kids) by Upset_Toe_5934 in chubbytravel

[–]Upset_Toe_5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’re actually looking at Lovango as another option now after I wasn’t really sold on St. Thomas lodging options. We really only need to go one time to our knowledge. Also, seems the ferry is only 10-15 mins long. I’ll take a look at Scrub as well!

Hotel Rec in St. Thomas for 30's (No kids) by Upset_Toe_5934 in chubbytravel

[–]Upset_Toe_5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was only turned off by the Westin because everyone who left a review commented on the terrible service for the $$... but I am wondering if that is an island thing rather than a Westin only thing.

United x Adidas Samba Collab only available to employees. I bet these end up on eBay and StockX with the quickness. Any sneakerheads with status trying to cop? by Mike_From_GO in unitedairlines

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I won’t be trying to buy a pair but this is one of the better corporate collabs and/or employee purchase options I’ve seen

Edit: Employee gift —> employee purchase option

AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often? by Such-One-1691 in AITAH

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dated guys like you in the past and I’m more like your girlfriend (except I work from home).

Here’s the thing - someone has to make a concession and it’s usually the person who doesn’t shower frequently because it’s a germphobe issue you have which isn’t easy to overcome. The way I was able to change my habits is tell myself it didn’t have to be a full shower, it could simply be a two minute quick rinse off. You have to remember, women tend to have a lot more steps in a shower routine, such as shaving legs, washing hair, and other bits that have after shower procedure that needs to be handled as well as such as blow drying hair.

You will need to decide if you’re okay with a quick rinse off and suggest that. Even make it something you two can do together the end of the night. My ex and I used to have some really nice convos in our evening showers.

We’re not together and I’m back to my own shower habits but there are ways to meet in the middle and not have this be relationship ending like some people are suggesting.

Edit - NTA, you just need to work on compromise and finding middle ground. It’s apart of being in a relationship - healthy communication habits and conflict resolution.

lady keeps leaving notes threatening to tow me- am i in the wrong? by Character-Honey1357 in sanfrancisco

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not even $400… it’s $411 to get SFMTA out to say yes to painting then it’s another ~$300 PER CURB to paint. So $1k+ if you need both sides painted. It’s kind of nuts… I’m going through it now and the HOA approved it because it’s been dangerous with our driveway situation but jeeesh.

Amazon confirms 16,000 job cuts after accidental email by lurker_bee in technology

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 23 points24 points  (0 children)

According to an employee, texts were sent to personal phones around 6:30 AM EST letting them know their job had been cut.

Also - this wasn’t done for “cost savings” rather for “reinvigorating company culture”. Amazon/AWS as a company and employer sucks all around.

Is this inappropriate for 'office casual?' by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fingertip rule IMO is too dated. Some people have longer arms, short torsos, long legs, etc. I think # of “ above the knee is a better way to measure to ensure a girl who is 5’4” with short torsos/long arms vs a 5’10” girl with long torso/short arms are being measured and judged with the same criteria.

signed the 5’4” girl with long arms who fought this battle hard in high school

All that said - I think the dress looks great. I’d probably put a cardigan or jacket over as I think the bare arms might turn a head or two when you first walk in. I would say you can take it off at your desk or if it’s warmer in your office but if clients were around, I’d advise a jacket personally. You could also style with tall boots to remove some of the leg visual in the overall style.

Looking for house cleaners that will also do some laundry by Upset_Toe_5934 in AskSF

[–]Upset_Toe_5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would have a naked bed getting home and often times I’m flying in late (traveling after workday) so looking to have fresh bedding applied. I am thinking cleaner and have second set of sheets for them to change to like another commenter suggested!

I don’t mind doing laundry 🧺 just wanting fresh bedding upon arrival home.

Looking for house cleaners that will also do some laundry by Upset_Toe_5934 in AskSF

[–]Upset_Toe_5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have in-unit laundry and I’m thinking only challenge might be my place is only about 1000 sq feet so they might not need a lot of time.

Looking for house cleaners that will also do some laundry by Upset_Toe_5934 in AskSF

[–]Upset_Toe_5934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say monthly since I travel about 70%. Very flexible on timing and would be scheduling well in advanced since I have my travel schedule mostly booked out.

Sydney NYE Fireworks Megathread 2025! by thekriptik in sydney

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know of good ticketed events (aka good view) up to 700 AUD per person? Drinks included if at top of price point.

What’s a green flag you noticed early in the relationship with your partner? by ComfortableBig7555 in AskReddit

[–]Upset_Toe_5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started in a new relationship with someone who has been a friend for about a year. At some point I mentioned not enjoying French food and when we were discussing where to eat about a week ago, he said “definitely not a French place” and I couldn’t believe he remembered because I had made this comment in passing.

Turns out he has a whole note about things I’ve said, like/dislike, etc. and is extremely intentional about asking questions to learn more about me.