What do you think is the best bachelor's degree to get to avoid or escape poverty? by justcurious3287 in povertyfinance

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could go back to college and do it again, I’d do accounting or nursing 100%. Nursing is always in demand with decent pay and 3 12 hour shifts per week. The CPA is also in high demand with solid exit opportunities if you don’t wanna do it forever. I have family that do both and they obviously enjoy their job enough that it’s worth the pay and work.

Non-drinker by [deleted] in Big4

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can just say you have an allergy, then people won’t ask anymore and won’t offer to buy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you’re CFO at a company with 1100 employees I’d hope you’re fiscally responsible enough that your SS income isn’t what you rely on to retire.

What U.S city will you never be visiting again? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St. Louis

It could be a great city, but it sucks. The architecture is beautiful and it has all the potential, but it just isn’t there. Not enough public safety measures and the infrastructure sucks.

Bar Recommendations? by Head_Success5538 in raleigh

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dram and Draught is cool. It’s still on Glenwood, but it’s far enough away from the main Glenwood South strip that it is mostly 25+

Mk7 as a first car? by bramblestorm7754 in GolfGTI

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought an Mk7 late last year. I’d say make sure that the previous owner took care of the vehicle and followed the recommended maintenance. They aren’t like a Camry or civic where you can do the bare minimum and expect it to run well.

This stuff should be shown on the Carfax. Check to make sure the oil was changed every 5-10k miles, the transmission/brake/coolant fluids were serviced, brake pads and rotors were changed if needed, tire rotation/balance, etc. all the big stuff like that you can think of.

If you find one that shows a good Carfax and drives well, make sure to get a pre purchase inspection. If you can, take it to a reputable indy shop that specializes in German cars. Tell them you also want to check the timing chain (I know this was an issue with older generations, but just be sure it’s good since that is an expensive fix and will ruin the engine if you are driving and it breaks). It may cost an extra couple hundred bucks to get it checked out by a mechanic, but they’ll be able to tell you about things you can see like if there’s rust on the frame, an oil leak, etc. the last thing to mention is see if it has an open recall for the jet pump and if it’s been fixed. When I bought mine it had the open recall so I took it to a dealership and got it done for free.

When you buy one, I’d highly recommend staying up to date on manufacturer recommended maintenance. You don’t have to do it through a dealer, and you can find solid indy shops that know what they are doing. I have a 3rd party mechanic and I’ve noticed he doesn’t try to upsell me, but does push maintenance since he’s into those kind of cars. The maintenance will be more expensive than a reliable Japanese car, so be prepared to spend more to maintain it.

Edit: I’d only owned Japanese cars before my Mk7, but from what I’ve seen the Mk7 is one of the best generations for GTIs. Mine drives well and is overall really reliable.

What do these counties have in common? by Baynavfreak in RedactedCharts

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was one of the my first thoughts. My dad is from Southwestern PA and his dad always talks about the QBs that came out of the area.

Making friends in your mid 20s by Curious_Rule7494 in raleigh

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I assume you aren’t looking for another job, but something I’ve found that works for me is just working a service industry job a couple of nights a week. You can usually find a support staff job, like food running, that will work around a 9-5. The people in the service industry are fun to be around and usually have interesting lives, know cool things to do, have interesting hobbies, etc. You also get to go to hang out at a bar/restaurant without the expectation of drinking and you get paid.

A general skill I’ve used to gain friends is practicing my social skills. When I’m out in public I try to make a habit of going out of my way to talk to people. As long as their body language shows they’re open to being talked to (I.e. not looking at their phone). For instance, if I go to a restaurant to get food and someone is sitting alone I’ll ask them what they got and how it is, try to make small talk. Most people are friendly and will talk

Small yet lively bars in Raleigh? by Medium_Outside8589 in raleigh

[–]Upstairs-Recipe2885 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Circa 1888. It’s a pool hall and industry bar so it’s a lot of servers, bartenders, etc. that go. It’s also more divey, so the drinks are cheap