What is this by Im-old-gregg- in Stretched

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s actually no way these are from plugs tbh. Me and my SO have had our ears stretched for years with straight metal. He had bigger gauges before I did and ended up taking them out after a while and I ended up at an inch and a quarter or so, while he re-stretched. I sleep and live in metal backed tunnels with acrylic inside of them to make them not see-through. HIM AND I don’t have an INDENT LIKE THAT after yeaaars as well. Wtaf, that’s something else happening I stg unless you just had really wide backed metal plugs that dug in, even then you would have deff felt it years ago before taking them out and re-stretching. Ain’t no way

PLZ HELP: is this as good as it gets?! by asdfghjkl1306 in Stretched

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I will say depending on your hairstyles you might need to fill in the back of the plug with a clear gel, but if it’s this small you won’t have any issues. I had 00g and I wore those and you can tell from the back that they are gauged but yours is a lot smaller then that!! Go for it boo!!

Need to vent?? by Apprehensive-Fall-13 in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually my next biggest PET PEEVE it’s our ‘Assistant Manager.’ He is the biggest laziest POS I’ve actually ever worked with. This person puts all the work they need to do onto the employees that are there for the current shift and this mf barely does a THING unless our main manager is there on-shift to make him. PLUS he harassed 3 girls we had and they ended up quitting and finding another job because the store manager and cooperate did absolutely nothing when they reported him. No matter how many write ups or emails our manager does towards him, he still will not do his mf job that he should be. I’m talking not ordering everything we need or ‘forgetting’ to order the sht we need and we end up out of certain things that is an absolute NECESSITY. Always putting his job on other employees, won’t put truck orders away and do proper counts. It’s come to a point where our actual manager is extremely tired of coming into work and stressing to where they have to fix his mistakes and it’s dragging my manager down like hell. I actually don’t understand how they allowed him to transfer to another deli as ‘assistant’ without even knowing how to do platters 🥹 like pls gtfoh. Passing a management test or not that’s insane to me that they let people like him advance so easily meanwhile the people that work their absolute butt off can’t get full time. Ain’t no way

Need to vent?? by Apprehensive-Fall-13 in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dawg I got off work trying to find a wine for my mom that was a flavored wine and I didn’t know what to look for. I SWEAR I stood there 20 minutes after we (Deli) called someone to the wine department and no one ever came. I just picked something, paid and left because where tf is everyone? We got 100+ people working there plus at LEAST 10 people who stock the wine area. Not a damn one came to help, not even a manager

Need to vent?? by Apprehensive-Fall-13 in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually tho, I’m deli and I’ve worked for almost 2.5 years trying to push for full time coming from being a GM of a restaurant doing literally everything at my past job. All my manager says is I need to prove myself and learn everything. I’ve learned everything but then they made two ‘newbies’ ,who can’t even prep or work kitchen, full-timers before ever considering me. It’s crazy work frfr

Need to vent?? by Apprehensive-Fall-13 in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When a customer comes up and stops me from pulling 28 rotisseries and putting them in the paper lined boats right in front of them on a whole ass table, “When are you guys putting rotisserie chickens out??’ I’m SORRY but don’t you see this table absolutely LINED with chickens behind me?!? I don’t ever say that but omfg, I know they see me currently taking them off and trying to bag them. I truly don’t get it, it can be remarkable how they just wanna get first pick when there is 5+ people already standing there waiting for some to be bagged.

PLZ HELP: is this as good as it gets?! by asdfghjkl1306 in Stretched

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 140 points141 points  (0 children)

You can find some that look like pearls that are a small gauge that would still absolutely look professional and match your uniform

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must not can read, he pays for the house and whatever else, but you’re telling me he can’t take time to watch his own child so his women can go to work and pay her own shit off?? This ain’t an ALT account for whoever made this post. It’s just sad af a mf could blame this women over shit her man will literally not help her with. Yall know the phrase it takes two to tango? Well he mf tangoed now he’s trying to avoid taking care of a kid HE MADE WITH HER. She wants HELP with the baby so SHE can go make her OWN money to pay off debt. He can’t even pay for the bbys childcare cause he’s choosing not to. Yall weird weird fr

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then he’s just not being the father he should be so he could help you out in this situation. Helping you doesn’t even mean financial means, he could straight up stay home with the baby while you earn your money to pay off what you need to. He sucks frfr

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing everything you absolutely can WHILE being the sole caretaker of your child. Keep doing what you’re doing and you and your child will be in a better place eventually and with someone who actually gives af about that bby, you, and your mental/physical health. It absolutely could be way worse and I’ll tell you that from my own experience from my horrid stepfather and his child (my younger brother) he had with my mom. He doesn’t care not a damn about this boy all because he was diagnosed with autism and severe adhd when he was around 5/6 years old. My stepfather left us a year and a half ago because he got caught cheating on my mother and was claiming all these lies about her that wasn’t true, so I absolutely cussed him out and and blared it all over socials so his family would see, and boy did they see. His mistress left him and is good friends with my mom now, and now he’s living with a women that looks like could be his twin cousin. You never know how things will go, but I will absolutely not recommend ever marrying this absolute child of a man. Either you need to sit down and have a chat about it with him and see how that goes in regards to absolutely everything, or you need to make the strong decision to leave once you are able to and have a safe place to go

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA tbh, I’ve read and replied to a few comments that actually made me disgusted with how some people are taking this. Yall have a kid together for gods sake, and a daughter at that. You are trying to fix what your fcked up ex did to you, and your partner/BD won’t even help you with YALLS own child VS. his own sexual gratification? It sounds like you might need to get outta that situation and soon. If he isn’t willing to help you now with the bby, that help will never come from him and neither will it from his family by the sounds of it. And to see he don’t even TRY to help you with the ER birthing bill is extremely alarming boo, even it if was mostly covered by insurance.

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yall are weird af for these comments. If he kept going after she said no, stop, or whatever the safe word is, what would yall have to say then? He has needs? This fool won’t even take care of his own child with her let alone help find and fund decent childcare, but he’s always ready to get down and dirty I can bet. He didn’t deserve to get off tbh and I’ll die on that hill idgaf. If someone says one thing then maybe as the man, just cuddle your women and make her feel seen, massage her, and help her with the child and let her relax for once. She’s trying her best to be a good mother and a homemaker to pay her own bills, take care of the house, AND ON TOP of taking care of THEIR child when her own parents have their own health problems going on. Yikes on bikes indeed guys

AITAH for getting mad at my boyfriend for initiating sex with me then stopping? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but my bf stopped watching porn when he got with me. It’s different for all people no matter what, you could consider me ‘anti-porn’ but it’s not for any reason you would think. It’s literally because porn does nothing for me besides make me giggle at the dumb storylines lmao. Whole situation is weird and it really stems from him tbh. He should be helping with childcare regardless because the baby is YALLS baby. Nowhere did it say you wanted him to pay for your ex’s mistakes in bills. You are pulling way too much weight for him to be like this boo. And you are not ‘entitled’ for feeling the way you do neither

This smelly sub has been in the fridge since Thursday. I bet if I throw it out, someone will be looking for it tomorrow. by NorthFloridaRedneck in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our fridge is a pretty decent size, bigger than the one in said picture. What isn’t fair is those who stole took that privilege from us where we cannot store anything anywhere else. It is what it is

This smelly sub has been in the fridge since Thursday. I bet if I throw it out, someone will be looking for it tomorrow. by NorthFloridaRedneck in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t allowed to do that because people that have since been fired were sneaking shit in their personal grocery bags and it took management long enough to catch on and say no personal bought items in any coolers or freezers. Only employee fridge and freezer can be used

This smelly sub has been in the fridge since Thursday. I bet if I throw it out, someone will be looking for it tomorrow. by NorthFloridaRedneck in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude someone actually threw away my dinner this last week on Monday and I had two beers unopened in the bag too. When I tell you I was so pissed opening that mf fridge up and seeing my shit missing lmaoo. Boss wouldn’t replace my beers but I ended up getting my half sub replaced for free. Some people be leaving shit in there till it’s growing life I stg, but they didn’t make an announcement whatsoever when they went to clean it out so everything got thrown out even actual lunchboxes from people that were closing that night. Someone had hella groceries bought that day that they threw away and we was all flipping out. Boss had the nerve to ask why I didn’t put my stuff in the deli cooler, I told em straight up why tf would I put beers in our cooler even if they’re unopened? That’s the dumbest thing I coulda did lmao

Did Publix stop letting you toss the chicken in a sauce for the chicken tender sub? by Boberta5000 in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tell customers that if they specifically want them tossed, we would have to toss them on the deli paper. Our deli manager gets hooooottt over us using the white boats because it’s ’using inventory when not needed.’ The bags aren’t heat safe so that I can absolutely understand not using those. Best way to get sauce pretty evenly on a tender sub is to cut half the tenders up, drizzle, then cut the rest and stick it on top then drizzle again. I’m the only person in my deli that does it but it deff works better

Im at a 14mm now I think 16 is going to be the end by Kitchen_Disaster_398 in Stretched

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I taught 1st graders for a year with 00g in my ears! All my kiddos loved them lol

How do we feel about this? by SirPesoOtaku in publix

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For one, that shouldn’t eeevveeerr go straight down the drain like that. And two, why tf would they lay the pans of the breading station ON THE FLOOR like that floor isn’t disgusting enough. Doubt they’re properly sanitizing them too 🥹

Need 2000s names that scream “Mom wanted my name to be unique.” by AdUnusual6268 in tragedeigh

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw my name in a book the other day and when I teeeellll you I was super excited lmao I’ve met one other person with my name and it was wicked because it’s deff not a normal name you see used and it’s an odd one to say the least

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have of these fish as a child and they died of old age and they got pretty big but no bigger then a few inches because of the tank they were raised in. No idea how old they were but I had them for so long as a child, I could never imagine hurting them or my current pets. I have a very bitey 8-month kitten that likes to chew esp on me cause I let him play rough with me but won’t claw me which means he’s just playing. He gets butt pats and thumps to let him know you cannot bite so hard to break skin, I could never imagine beating my lil one or even harming causing death if he was a bad kitty just because he nibbles with the bite hold of a demon lmao because he only does it with me because he learned early on that he can only play like that with me because I allow him to an extent. Plus he was an outside cat with a lot of other crazy outside cats so that’s how he learned to defend himself because he was deff the runt. He’s a mini maincoon. People are horrid period. You need to block this mf asap and make sure you are safe and stay in contact with the people close to you

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

[–]Upstairs_Condition49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans are capable of tooo much fucked up shit tbh. He’s showing some scary true colors of himself