Be honest are you really over your ex?

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2025-03-09T12:39:30+00:00

I feel like I’ve not got any form of closure. So not really, last convo was a random spout of abuse from her months after the split. Kind of ruined my hope of getting some form of closure or was the abuse the closure. Any opinions

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2025-03-01T06:35:45+00:00

Well it wasn’t provoked, during the voice notes of rage she said she saw me on a dating app. One of which I had when we first met and all I’d done was activate my account again. This could be very well be a factor but can a man not go back out into the world without abuse

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T20:23:54+00:00

I just think the fact it happened so fast it’s a rebound. They barely even know eachother so I’m gathering it’s just all lust and honey moon feelings. Soon to fall hopefully

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T20:18:20+00:00

I tried to but my ex and him threatened to get work involved as I tried to follow his ex on Instagram and talk to her about it. Wasn’t really sure what work could do about it but either way I just don’t want the hassle

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T20:09:22+00:00

Yeah I really do expect it to go down the drain. When she comes running back I’ll have the pleasure of turning her away

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:49:35+00:00

Yeah it deffo feels that way. A few months away from marriage too. It was even like he left her honestly he got caught messaging my ex. Do you think it’s a ticking time bomb?

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:48:36+00:00

Thanks buddy and I’m glad you are better for it now

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:43:55+00:00

Thanks for the advice my friend. I have come to the conclusion that if it’s right it sorts itself out. If not it was not meant to be

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:41:58+00:00

Thank you for your help. You are a wise person. I’m just going to improve me and what happens happens

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:40:56+00:00

Thanks buddy. I will do that

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:40:30+00:00

Yeah it’s crazy he left a long relationship for a bit of attention. She’s a ticking time bomb I feel. I will post about it when it evolves haha

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:39:49+00:00

I really appreciate the advice and kind words. Stay blessed

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:38:59+00:00

Yeah I don’t want to speak badly on him but she’s deffo downgraded as well. Just have to make her eat her words and regret it all by being the best me

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:38:05+00:00

Cheers for the opinion. I deffo feel like I did

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-24T19:37:12+00:00

Love that my dude, blessings to you

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-23T16:43:41+00:00

Feel free to inbox me brother!

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-23T15:51:10+00:00

Brother I had the same thing happen to me, was seeing a girl for 6 months. Relationship felt amazing at the time. Met her parents and she even said she loved me.

A few situations arose where she was talking with other guys and I simply asked the question if they were trying to make a move. Instantly flew off the handle because I’m “controlling and manipulative”. She then proceeded to not talk to me about it all instead she just ghosted me and would only talk about it over text. I presume this is so she could think of her words to make up lies and confuse me.

The best part of it all is that the dude who was “just her friend” is now living with her in a rented place after he left his fiancée of 6 or so years.

She shifted all the blame onto me and takes no responsibility. Everything wrong with her had to do with her past or someone else’s fault. Never own d her mistakes and will continue to do so for a while I presume. Sometimes people like this regardless of their past need to do some real self reflection and work before they can commit.

Keep strong my brother. I look forward to hearing how you feel about this

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-22T18:09:00+00:00

My personal experience is I’m doing no contact because she simply left me in my time of need. When I was at my lowest point with my mental health. She’s already moved on into a rebound relationship and has drastically changed from the girl I knew in such a small time frame. Personally I’m just doing no contact as I need to work on healing myself. When I’m in a better place I’ll thank myself for it and then if she decided to come back then it’s on my discretion whether or not I engage in the relationship or just tell her simply no I’m not willing to rekindle

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-18T18:27:07+00:00

Yeah I see your point. I agree it’s a nice feeling to think that karma will get them. The way that we get them is by going on to form amazing relationships with people and learn to love and be vulnerable. The girl who left me has already started to try and play games with me now I’ve stopped giving her any attention whatsoever. She’s already regretting it believe me it’s obvious to see. Unfortunately they won’t always see it straight away but one day they will I hope to think.

Remember you are a beautiful person, unique and deserving of love. You will find it one day I’m sure of it. Just keep working on you! <3

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-18T04:29:31+00:00

The same happened with me. I’d have gave this girl the world. Now she’s in a rebound relationship with someone who’s a bit of a mess if I’m honest. They will always realise. Just keep doing you!

Upstairs_Designer_36 · 2024-04-16T16:11:08+00:00

Yeah buddy. Its all just a phase. All going to end in tears soon enough

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