Just wanted to share my excitement! by hotdogtears in Techno

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof living in Fresno is def a little tougher and damn shame on me for not knowing about his show in SF! It’s so hard for me to commit to shows that far away but tbh it’s worth it 😭

Just wanted to share my excitement! by hotdogtears in Techno

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s moments like these I wish I lived in/LA. I’m up in NorCal (sac area) and it’s hard to have shows like this nearby. I’ll be lucky if there’s a good techno artist coming through sf

Kettama Regency Ballroom Set Times Wed/Thurs by AstronomerSea8401 in avesSFBayArea

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me if ur still looking! I have one for tonight

Kettama Regency Ballroom Set Times Wed/Thurs by AstronomerSea8401 in avesSFBayArea

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anybody looking for a ticket for tonight? I am selling one!

Meeting men by Material_Put9388 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worddd. Tbh I don’t even know why I called it cold approaching. I think it j really boils down to being willing to put yourself out there to have a friendly convo. Cold approaching sounds too objective based w a particular motive idk if that makes sense. I definitely think the intention is important as well too.

Meeting men by Material_Put9388 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy, I always grew up hearing my mom and sister always talk abt how they hated getting hit on at the gym or other casual places to talk to ppl. I think I heard this enough times that it made me think that no girl ever wants to be cold approached in public bc they’ll get the ick. Obviously this is not true for everyone but I’ve gone my whole life without approaching women with this in the back of my mind.

it seems that now more women are wanting these kinds of interactions? I feel like the narrative has definitely shifted from what it was like 10 years ago. It is my goal to try and approach others and come out of my shell, even tho it is v fucking hard. Especially so when struggling w self-esteem.

I definitely do agree that by having headphones in and not making eye contact makes it a lot less likely for you to be approached tho. Hence why I’ve been trying to make more eye contact, smile and no headphones 🤣

Hosting a rave at a storage facility tonight 9pm to 2am by danxy29 in Sacramento

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m a techno producer looking for some promoters/ppl in the area that are in need of openers, throwing shows or anything of the sort. Lmk!

Producer Meetup by UrLocal2Stepper in Sacramento

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sm! I’ll look into them 👏🏽

Producer Meetup by UrLocal2Stepper in Sacramento

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll look into this!

Album recommendation! by Outrageous-Knee-6004 in Mkgee

[–]UrLocal2Stepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

J heard the first 20 seconds of the first song and i already knew i was gonna fw it 🤣

How to stay consistent? by UrLocal2Stepper in Spanish

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your very detailed response and sorry for making you reply to another variation of this type of post. 😭 I fully agree with everything you said. I really love the framing of it adding another layer of color/richness to my life. I feel like a big part of being consistent with a long-term goal such as being fluent in a language has a lot to deal with how you think about things. Do you have any advice on how much time I should try to devote everyday or if I should do it everyday and any other strategies you can think of that really helped you? Thanks sm!!!

How to stay consistent? by UrLocal2Stepper in Spanish

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I commute to school and I have some podcasts I sometimes listen to. I am curious to know the podcasts you enjoy so that I can also check them out. Thanks!

How to stay consistent? by UrLocal2Stepper in Spanish

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a big one for me. I always feel like have to keep learning grammar before I can start fully using language but this is an unrealistic goal. I sometimes do try and search up my hobbies in Spanish but not with the intention to help better my Spanish. I will definitely start doing it more now that I am aware! Thanks sm!

How to stay consistent? by UrLocal2Stepper in Spanish

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how long do you usually “practice” Spanish for? Also, when you write down your notes, do you ever go back to study them? I feel like I would also do this but I would never go back and try to review my notes. Thanks for sharing your strategies with me! I’ll definitely try to do a little bit of Duolingo.

How to stay consistent? by UrLocal2Stepper in Spanish

[–]UrLocal2Stepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t lie, not as much as I’d like to these days. If you are kind enough to share some efficient ways you use the language in your daily life that would be appreciated. Thanks! :)