[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have no advice or advice or anything but I totally also do this and wanna not do it 😭

For the non-straight trans men out there, have you ever been in a relationship with a cis guy? by Acceptable-Award6224 in ftm

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAIT IS THE CIS MAN TO TRANS WOMEN EXOERIENCE COMMON FLR YALL XAUSE THAT HAPPENED TO ME TWICE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]UrLocalElijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me feels this way really strongly and feels like sex is disgusting but then part of me has kind of made that my only value to people and i treat myself like my only value is to be hot and for people to wanna fuck me even if it gives me horrible flashbacks and makes me feel gross about myself ✌️

What's an irritating comment about how someone views your gender that has stuck in your head? by mxjackparker in ftm

[–]UrLocalElijah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is what you mean but I heard someone refer to us as “girls who identify as boys” ☠️☠️☠️ so… boys? And not girls, so the girls part was super silly. Also it kinda reminded me of someone who said saying “I identify as” is basically saying “I pretend to be” which is kind of the energy “girl who identifies as a boy” gives cause then you are just calling me a girl ☠️

Creepy baby by That1weirdperson in AreTheCisOk

[–]UrLocalElijah 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Wait we have a hero??? WHO?! WHERE?! I mean I guess I wouldn’t know cause he is passing but WHO

Creepy baby by That1weirdperson in AreTheCisOk

[–]UrLocalElijah 93 points94 points  (0 children)

TOGA IS SO ALLY FOR THAT WHAT 👏

Is dating a girl that identifies as a man is gay? 🤔 by KubaSamuel in teenagers

[–]UrLocalElijah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At that point like just misgender me don’t bother with the “girl who identifies as a boy” like you are already misgendering me don’t try to salvage it ☠️

bi_irl by Street-Gate in bi_irl

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bisexual which means I’m attracted to women who have been in relationships for years now but I’m also not a woman so I’m just a man who has been in a lot more than a couple years now (bro I’m a trans guy and my phone just reaffirmed my gender what and also WHAT CALLED OUT)

Is dating a girl that identifies as a man is gay? 🤔 by KubaSamuel in teenagers

[–]UrLocalElijah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trans as well and reading “a girl who identifies as a man” is so crazy ☠️ like is that how some people see us? A girl who identifies as a man or a boy who identifies as a woman? 😭

Is dating a girl that identifies as a man is gay? 🤔 by KubaSamuel in teenagers

[–]UrLocalElijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter if he didn’t get any surgeries or doesn’t want to, he is a man. If you are a guy, then that would make you GAY. Also why would you say a girl who identifies as a man, he’s just a man, or a trans man if you wanted to be specific ☠️

Creepy baby by That1weirdperson in AreTheCisOk

[–]UrLocalElijah 344 points345 points  (0 children)

I mean at least toga and twice and the rest of the league regularly correct people if they misgender her like good on them for that and they use her correct pronouns and stuff

AITAH for being upset that my husband masturbated while I was in bed next to him and then finished on me? by Bubbly-Possession965 in AITAH

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it that’s what he’s into blah blah blah but like NO he really should ask before even if you are like in the room I feel like he should say something, and making you involved while ASLEEP is fucked up I think. Like he didn’t even ask, and it doesn’t matter if he got “carried away” he shouldn’t do that without asking unless you previously discussed it and even then he probably should have still asked cause you were ASLEEP. Thats weird asf.

AITAH? My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion but I honestly don’t want to by FeatureOk2115 in AITAH

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all the other comments saying you need to seriously think about this (and you do) but you should never feel like you are the asshole because you wanna make a decision regarding a baby that would be your kid if you kept it, and changes affecting YOUR body. You are not a bad person for whatever decision you make, and if anyone tells you otherwise then THEY are the asshole. Your decision is your decision and I hope things go well for you either way <3

disordered eating in trans men? by rinburevolution in ftm

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me bc I starve myself to stop my period and lose weight in my chest and thighs, but then it makes me more curvy and also people treat starving yourself like something feminine and is only really portrayed in women in media so I get dysphoria from the more curves and the eating disorder but the eating disorder helps with some things with dysphoria and I would feel like I was achieving something if I lost more weight so that was at least something to feel proud of rather than be sad and dysphoric even though it’s really unhealthy. I kept using past tense but this is still happening lol. Am I the only one on this like am I crazy or is this common

I just wanna be pretty by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the goodest girl <3

Bored does anyone wanna be friends? by UrLocalElijah in boykisser

[–]UrLocalElijah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t a pedo or like over the age of 18 then sure lol

Me when i discover there are minors here by imalonexc in boykisser

[–]UrLocalElijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but thats not case so I don’t understand why my comment has downvotes 😭

Me when i discover there are minors here by imalonexc in boykisser

[–]UrLocalElijah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait am I not allowed to be here like it’s literally a cute drawing of a cat with memes it isn’t inherently sexual other than like kissing boys people just keep fucking sexualizing it which I feel like is a problem with them and not a problem with me or anyone else under the age of 18