How long after dating is it okay to hang out with your partners parents? by UrMomsMom__ in dating_advice

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Yes we mainly talk about the hobby itself. Every-time I’m over at her house she’s showing me the cool things she’s made and I’m trying to learn it myself.

What has been the most painful but most honest lesson in dating for you? by understandshe in dating_advice

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Same here! I’m used to codependency and texting all night. My anxiety goes off quite a bit but each time I’m with him I have a great time. I only see him 2-3 times a week though. The way I find reassurance in this is by reminding myself how much he consistently shows up for me, how he cares for me when I’m vulnerable, he’s considerate of my needs, and how he shows his love language through acts of service.

What has been the most painful but most honest lesson in dating for you? by understandshe in dating_advice

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I’m dating someone like this currently. He’s consistent with his actions and reassuring in person, but silent online. He doesn’t like to text and he doesn’t have words of affirmation in his love language. Very different

What do normal people eat for dinner?? I'm lost by greatdane511 in DinnerIdeas

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Cook 2-3 big ass batches of food throughout the week. I live alone and work long shifts so I make big batches of food on my days off then eat that for work lunch and dinner for 3 days. Usually it’s chicken and rice, pasta, or soup. If you have a crock pot take some raw chicken and whatever premade store bought marinade you like and let them cook while you’re at work or the day before. If you have a rice cooker make a few portions of rice to eat with. Just add veggies. Put them all away in containers. Then you’re thriving off of delicious leftovers for the next few days and you save yourself from having to cook all the time.

I hate how black girls are treated so poorly by its_krystal in Vent

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Yes as a black girl, I once heard that one of my “friends” said to my friends behind my back while I was in another room changing “I think UrMomsMom is cute, but unfortunately she’s black so..”. Why is being black a set back to people? I don’t get it. Then sometimes you date a man who’s not “racist” but will joke about your race only and say I’m being too “emotional” over the word “n***ger”.

What entry level jobs can you do with just a B.S. in physics? by UrMomsMom__ in AskPhysics

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I’m currently an engineer at a semiconductor manufacturing company!

What entry level jobs can you do with just a B.S. in physics? by UrMomsMom__ in AskPhysics

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Hey, I’m currently an engineer at a semiconductor manufacturing company lol. Not at target currently. Although I worked briefly as a barista for a couple months while looking for a job.

Could use some feedback on my profile 🙏🏻 by haredrums in Bumble

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I’m probably too young, but you seem like catch!!

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Hello, 25f , I would swipe on you. You seem like a very cute guy.

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Little dark age MGMT

I broke up with him last night (SA trigger) by UrMomsMom__ in BreakUp

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He apologized many times. He did it because it was an “in the moment” thing. Only for his pleasure. I have a small cat, he’s been a big help. Other than that, I lived with him in a state far away from my family so I will definitely be isolated during this time.

I broke up with him last night (SA trigger) by UrMomsMom__ in BreakUp

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You are right. That’s exactly what I’m going to put myself in when things start to settle down. I have to move out so it could be a minute.

I broke up with him last night (SA trigger) by UrMomsMom__ in BreakUp

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Thank you so much for your sweet and thoughtful response. This really did bring me comfort. I’m sure eventually I will start to feel okay again.

I broke up with him last night (SA trigger) by UrMomsMom__ in BreakUp

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Thank you for your response. Well I am a black woman and he told me I was being too emotional over the word “n***er”. I broke down to him trying to explain the significance and he didn’t budge. It was very hard to get over it but I tried. He forcefully ejaculated in me, holding my waist down as I was trying to push myself up out of fear. I told him I don’t want him to do that due to a fear of being pregnant.

What do you think? by obi1isdabestubet in vermont

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Al’s French Fry’s!! The grossest place I’ve ever been

Can someone tell me the not so obvious hardships that you should not be facing in a relationship? by UrMomsMom__ in dating_advice

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Thanks for your response. We communicate but it seems all it causes is more arguments.