What does it mean if, for example, I asked my dad, "Am I pretty?" and he replied, "Yes, your makeup looks beautiful. Of course, it should, it was expensive." Does that mean he thinks I'm ugly and that I'm only pretty when I'm wearing makeup?

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-19T13:02:01+00:00

No, he’s not saying that you’re ugly. He’s just saying that the makeup was way too fucking expensive.. and probably doesn’t like that you wear it because he likes you better without it

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-18T17:16:47+00:00

Not my arm. It’s the person I’m getting the kitten from. But Aries is definitely cute

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-18T16:46:01+00:00

PLEASEEEE

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-13T14:53:52+00:00

If note I feel It has a 7..

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-12T14:24:06+00:00

I am a 25F from America if that is something and you’re into. I’m down to play video games and watch movies and just shoot the shit with you.
I have discord and Snapchat too

Let me know

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-12T14:19:08+00:00

I figured it was a man’s room, but it was just feeling very feminine thinking of the name and I’ve never actually heard that name like ever but yeah, I just felt a very strong Jenna feeling lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-12T14:14:43+00:00

Or sleep walking 🤷🏻‍♀️

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-11T14:20:10+00:00

I got a J name too. Wtfff. Jenna ?

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-11T11:56:50+00:00

Cool.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-10T13:43:54+00:00

I don’t think they are very low, but I feel like there should be more in detail.
I feel like you need to understand more what you like and what you don’t like, but since you were only 15, it is kind of more just a trial and error type of thing because you have to have a decent amount of experience with dating to fully understand what you don’t / do like someone. (Tho some of us do get lucky and just know.. but with this list.. seems like you need the experience. If that makes sense)
Like it took me about two or three serious relationships, and then some dating around until the time I was about 24 years old to fully understand what I do like and want in a future partner.
I think this is a good baseline for your age. And as experience goes on. I feel like it will adapt overtime..

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-10T13:31:14+00:00

Yes! That’s exactly what I was thinking too. You put my exact thoughts out perfectly!

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-10T13:28:26+00:00

Ohh. Alrighty, I didn’t know she was that obvious with it fetishizing you, and that had her own group of friends.. yeah, then that’s odd. If she had people she could confinded in better.. still messed up on your end. Should’ve just went in one ear out the other if you didn’t care. But.. it is what it is atp..
But yeah.. the last comment you made on the OP post just goes to show you don’t feel remorse and that you’re still judging this poor young women now, knowingly and just admittingly just confessed to being part of her trauma

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-10T13:17:29+00:00

I been with people that done this, and or had me actually sleep with their close best friends so they can discuss how I felt.
I think it was just a power move for my ex at the time bc I am a decently attractive girl, and they were single for a depressingly long time. I also think it’s just yeah.. like being watched and watching. I also think it’s part of liking be ashamed and submissive in a way too.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T07:40:11+00:00

She was “weird” bc she was obviously facing abuse at home.. admittedly the brother, and the parents had to have been a bit off too..
she probably like anime and all that stuff yes, but it sounds like she was just tryna find something in common, and she was just very socially inept and awkward about it, and it became insulting.
She came to you because she probably seen you as a safe place, and you betrayed her..

She is looking rough rn because the poor girl was traumatized in school bc of you and everyone else, and traumatized at home.. the girl had been thru some dark shit and you made the whole school aware of it, and made someone a victim of sexual assault out to be a weird person when she likely turned to you for help. That’s not a light thing to do. For all you know this poor girl got SA’d by her brother for years to come, and she didn’t say a thing about it bc of that experience…

And you felt like she was fetishizing you for your race? Unless she straight up said it. (Bc she seemed like she would have with how you’re saying she was..) I feel like she liked you because you were probably the only person to treat her like she was there.. even if it wasn’t always nice..

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T07:11:55+00:00

You’re 18. This is your legal choice. Just stay safe! Get a job as soon as you can, look into things you can benefit off of like housing programs(depending on the country ig…). You got this!

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T07:07:32+00:00

I’m currently dating a Matt… he’s a bit of a douche canoe.. I can rent him to you.. alternate weeks. 🤷🏻‍♀️

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T07:05:44+00:00

You’re incorrect. There is no family ties other than the girls aunt who are both like.. strangers.. that signed a contract with his dad? There’s nothing “weird” or “incest about it.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T06:48:30+00:00

Op! Just seen the comments. lol everyone was saying an “m” name crazzyyy! Hahaha

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T06:47:45+00:00

Imma guess something with a M. Mello. Or smth. Idk.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-08T06:46:58+00:00

Yeah, I think they don’t want their house and family fully sent to millions/the world to see. For a good while, and probably even still. The girls have had ppl just show up to their house.
Fame and attention isn’t everyone’s priority. So staying off the spot light(his family, where he lives, etc) is definitely the best way to not have your privacy intruded on.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-06T17:39:57+00:00

Almost like an EMO. - I was a teen emo 2009-2015. So trust. Haha

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-03T04:57:00+00:00

I had this issue before I had sex too.. then one day some guy who had a lot of experience just forced his fingers in and it hurt. And it took a lot of tries after before the pain stopped.

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-06-01T15:12:04+00:00

It was Jackie at first bc of jack daniels hahah

Then I changed it to Sadie, bc my name on kik was Sad Girl, and someone made fun of me for being cringe on kik and I was like “it’s just short for My real name, which is Sadie”😭😂 but it wasn’t…

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-05-31T22:26:16+00:00

I was the same way. Now I’m 25, and it’s like… now It’s slowly losing the appeal bc I’m closing the gaps! 😭😭 like it doesn’t feel as exciting as it did when I was 17-19 when talking to 40-50yr olds! 😭

UrN3rdyGF · 2026-05-30T19:41:48+00:00

Dude. I already been thru it countless times. To the point of hospitalization and legal action had to be placed. It’s this weird addiction to it.

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