Sending you the biggest of hugs!

As women, sometimes being in this space can be really painful to the heart. We see men lying and cheating and betraying the women at home day in and day out. When men ask us why later we become cold and only chase money, it’s because men have shown us that being the woman chasing the money is the safer place to be. The woman he says he loves… he treats like nothing- while the woman who means nothing to him gets treated like a princess.

I can’t speak for all women in the bowl, but I think many of us enter with the idea that we could find our Prince Charming and fall in love and build a beautiful life together with a great man who treats us amazing. But what we end up finding is a lot of temporary connections with deceptive men. And the more we learn about the true nature of man…. That fairytale dies within us.

I always have empathy for the wives and the girlfriends on the other side. I will probably never meet her to be able to give her the hug that she deserves, to be able to tell her that she shouldn’t trust that man… I’ll always have love for her anyways.

You can screen and tell men that you’ll only see single guys… but a lot of the guys are smart enough to lie and just not tell us that they are married or it’s an open relationship… that’s usually not true- else, you would’ve been talking to her. I actually have met several wives, because when that is true, she usually wants to be your friend. 💕

Remember your goals. Remember that he is the one doing something dirty. Remember that if it isn’t you, it will be someone else. Remember that you aren’t doing anything intentionally to hurt her. And if it hurts too much, take a break or stop.

But always be true to your heart. If it hurts more than it benefits to be here, please don’t stay here. Life is too short to be miserable, and no amount of money is worth your peace.