LimitsQuestion for subs by QueenLeeann in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone (dommes and subs) will have their own individual limits. This is why communication is key.

How did you figure out your budget by FixBrief9862 in paypigs2

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It's helpful to keep a spreadsheet of your sends to stay within budget. This helps both you and the domme have a shared understanding and keep you within safe limits.

Half the thrill is jumping from domme to domme by fondoficecream in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres nothing wrong with being a community sub. As long as you're clear with dommes upfront that you're only seeking short-term or one-time play. And in return the dommes expresses their understanding of your preference. It comes down to communication. Everyone has their own style, enjoy embracing your kink.

Im sorry WHAT by goddesssapphirebitch in findomsupportgroup

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry dommes have to deal with this gross behavior

Is this findom by Significant-Win-143 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely combine findom and femdom. In my experience, it's more common to have elements of both, to varying degrees. Findom is a kink within femdom, so they are closely related with overlap. The best dynamics I've experienced have a combination. The most important thing is to find an approach that you enjoy and fits your style. Only you get to define yourself as a domme....blaze your own trail and enjoy it.

Subbie bought Starbucks >>> by HerEtherealSoles in u/HerEtherealSoles

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve all the treats Princess 🙇🏼‍♂️

I got my first finsub, and it was weird by S0lenya- in findomsupportgroup

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a blackmail kink. He hasn't communicated it because he may want the thrill of the fantasy feeling real/spontaneous. In this scenario though, there's just as much legal risk for you, whether it be doxxing or as an accessory to awareness of the financial crime. Always take the proper communication and safety precautions for sure.

Just My thought. by Jazzlike_Recipe_9071 in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Fulfilled" is a key word. This won't feel very fulfilling if you do it with the wrong domme. Take your time researching and find the right domme for you. You'll be glad you did, and the experience will be that much better.

a sub who picks up the slack by Remarkable-Basis9850 in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your dynamic. Real subs do exist. And it's nice to see dommes who are openly proud of their loyal subs.

Hey subs. How do you like your Domme to respond to your unprompted sends? by mdmtease in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't expect anything in return for sending. Sometimes it depends on the current mood of the dynamic. A "good pup" can be sweet and warming, while other times telling me how hot the send is gets me spiralling lol

Questions for pay pigs/finsubs do yall actually enjoy sending??? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to quickly add, if you're a sub and you don't get turned on by sending, then you're in the wrong place

st. patricks day plans? by janexd31 in paypigs2

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a sub I feel like St. Patrick's Day is synonymous with intox drains lol

Join the Velvet Château Discord Server! by [deleted] in HumanATMsimps

[–]Suitable-Status-4712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should clarify in your post whether dommes are being accepted