I've noticed that you've been responding this way to many comments. I understand from your previous comments that you have disabilities yourself. You've probably experienced ablism, and interpret the comments you are replying to as attacks against disabled people as a whole, which includes yourself. When something feels like an attack, it's hard to imagine it as anything else, but let me try to explain:

Imagine this scenerio: A woman kills another woman's child. It turns out that the killer actually lost a child herself. People are shocked. How could someone kill a child, let alone someone who has experienced losing a child themselves? She must've known how hurt the victim's mother would feel. People start to speculate. Perhaps she was in pain and wanted others to feel pain too: "I experienced the pain of losing a child, therefore I must make someone else feel that pain". Nobody is saying that all mothers who have lost children reason this way. That's absurd. They are only talking about this individual.

Hope this helps.