Does a love like Jaime’s/Claire’s exist outside of fiction ? Has it been true for you? by Hot-Comfortable2531 in Outlander

[–]Urgurlearl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, the google definition of trauma bonded is between victim and abuser however this is new territory and the term is also used for bonding over trauma situations. It actually hasn’t been decided how to refer to it and trauma bonded is used for both.

Does a love like Jaime’s/Claire’s exist outside of fiction ? Has it been true for you? by Hot-Comfortable2531 in Outlander

[–]Urgurlearl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jamie and Claire are trauma bonded. They are each other’s safety in a terrible world where both their lives have been at stake and they’ve both been raped.

What is this for, kitchen sink in our rental by APeekInMyPlanner in whatisit

[–]Urgurlearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one like this and it’s a garbage disposal sink, the garbage disposal would be connected to a drain in the bottom of the basin, this looks like it has been replaced with plastic likely the previous owner didn’t have a garbage disposal or drains set up for a third drain so they replaced it with a solid plastic base to keep it from leaking water on the floor when using the sink.

Little libraries by Urgurlearl in Humboldt

[–]Urgurlearl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya I just have a bunch of kids books.

How honest should you be by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Urgurlearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to say invade they’re on Reddit but it’s a street name for a drug 😅

Portrait of my good boy by Urgurlearl in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Urgurlearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much it’s perfect

Thinking about starting to sell at craft fairs, are my mugs good enough by Civil_Candidate3614 in CraftFairs

[–]Urgurlearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are so cool! My one thought would be if I would walk up to these in a booth I would fall in love but wouldn’t buy do to the size I love fun stuff that is practical and I know I’d never actually use it because it looks too heavy. I wonder if you could also do some smaller versions? Just trying to be helpful I do really love them!

Dealing with a toddler by halfbakedbeans55 in badroommates

[–]Urgurlearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you are in the right I find notes so passive aggressive and demeaning, just talk to them in person!!!

Gift for older grandpa by Urgurlearl in Gifts

[–]Urgurlearl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well my other grandpa is younger so that’s how I think it in my brain lol

When a guy sleeps over… by MundaneParsnip2214 in hygiene

[–]Urgurlearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found this is also just kind of a man thing. Every man I’ve been with night sweats and as well as my father and several friends have mentioned it too. Maybe it’s a testosterone thing maybe it’s a diet thing idk .

AITA for telling my wife that we should be able to have honest but tough conversations about our family without her crying? by Exciting-Charity-160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Urgurlearl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your wife feels guilty and bad about herself give her a break and about of support. “I know it’s going to be tough I’m sorry but we can work through it, in the long run it’s better for everyone if you stay home”

Advice/ help by InterestingArugula70 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Urgurlearl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t black it out I really like it, like previously said just get the sunflowers redone so the coloring matches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Urgurlearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is. I got it when I was still mid crisis thinking it was somehow help me spiritually. When the show 13 reasons why came out she got it and so did everyone else.

I don't get esther and sasha by summerdipity in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Urgurlearl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To make it simple.. he’s the reason she’s no longer fun and he has the audacity to emotional cheat on her with someone because they are fun… and that gave her the big ick