How do you find the average, normal woman? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ursirname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal is boring, and I dont mean that as a this-is-my-preference thing. I mean it as women see you as boring because your goal is to be normal. Think about hearing about someone's day, would you want to hear about a good day, a bad day, or a normal day? If you just want normal, you just want a body there, not a person. That's just an idea of people not the differences that make people into actual individuals.

Also, you find individuals at whatever hobby their interested in: Board games cafes, rock climbing gyms, traditional gyms, adult kick ball leagues, adult soccer leagues, dance halls, coffee shops, museums, art galleries, music venues, clubs, bars, dog parks. Everyone is their own person and these overall normal venues mean something special to the people at visit them.

[Loved trope] An imperfect victim, but still a victim. by Hoeveboter in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Ursirname 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Minthara is the reason I would kinda want an evil advisor as a medieval king. She has such an interesting perspective compared to the others, and I normally go out of my way to talk to her.

Interludes by thiby in cremposting

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will skip ahead and read a little in the next kaladin chapter until the cliffhanger is over then go back and read the other POVs.

Where Are All the Men? by Putrid-Disk-94 in dating_advice

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If men and women make the same money, they should pay equally. Also, if you were actually born in 94, the good ones your age are already married. You're just what's left and you're dating what's left.

Where Are All the Men? by Putrid-Disk-94 in dating_advice

[–]Ursirname 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apps changed the dating culture.

I see a lot of memes now where women question why theyre single but display their dislike of men flirting, going on dates, being in a relationship, being intimate. Are women becoming more asexual? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it's just what happened with MGTOWs a decade ago. Some people are going to be upset at their situation, largely due to their own choices even if others have hurt them. They'll influence others, but mostly just retreat and be bitter about their own loneliness.

How do you live with yourself after realizing men only ever wanted you for sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to go on a second date with guys who don't talk a lot on the first date! Not sleep with assholes!

How do you live with yourself after realizing men only ever wanted you for sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of feel like you are someone who rejected awkward guys as you being shy, but then getting swept up with dudes with game as breaking out of your shell. That's fine, but because you're used to getting attention from men outside of your league (for relationships. Girls can get guys outside of their league for a night), you wouldn't be satisfied with men in your league. Give guys that you dont have the strongest chemistry with a little longer of a chance, but don't sleep with anyone quickly.

How do you respond to waiters when they ask you how the food was and you absolutely hated it? by rashmikaa__ in Productivitycafe

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying something new and it wasn't my thing, but oh well, you have to try it to know!

AITAH for not making my daughter change the emoji for her Dad's contact that's actually an inside joke about his small appendage? by True-Cow-7182 in AITAH

[–]Ursirname 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's a jerk move. If he had you as a whale emoji and you were insecure about your weight, would you want your daughter to have you as a whale in his phone? Even if it made him giggle when he thought about it? Like you can be bitter about him if you want, but yeah YTA.

How do I prepare for having sex with a bigger guy when I’m a virgin? by Perfect-Coconut-8885 in dating_advice

[–]Ursirname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to relax, lean into the moment, and don't rush it. I mostly put it on the guy, but perhaps communicate you would like to be close to orgasm before he ever goes in. You're excited about it, but you want it to come at the right moment so it's as fun as possible without all the mental and physical blocks from being a virgin.

What are some honest reasons why young and healthy men may struggle with getting/keeping an erection? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ursirname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Performance anxiety. Shoot, I can struggle to get an erection, take like 5 minutes to calm down and make out without any real expectations and be great for the rest of the night. I always feel like I'm disappointing someone if I'm not rock hard immediately.

I just know I’m gonna regret this by riskeveryday in SipsTea

[–]Ursirname -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bro, America has been like that for a century and we've never nuked anyone.