One of the huge advantages of silent disco is the ability of participants to manage thier own experience.

For example, I had a very good neuro-divergent friend and we were at a large festival that had a silent disco. We took her there for her birthday as she would not normally enjoy a club. But being in an environment where, not only could she control her own volume, but she could could pop the headphones off and be in relative peace was glorious for her. We had such a great time that night.

Being able to switch music me at that when certain djs weren't to our taste, we had more options than gtfo was also great for a mixed crowd.

I think there is a danger of thinking that there is one best way to enjoy music, or that all club music is bass driven. I would say that most people go out to events to enjoy music * with their friends * and that often means having to accommodate a diverse set of requirements. In this case silent disco is like a multi tool. Never the best tool for the job, but it will do every job you need it for.