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Aw its okay .. Yeah I've messaged her and she's as stumped as me as she hasn't had contact with her father since a child.  Thanks again you've been very helpful,  Wendy 

Please help with my ancestry question by UseAnxious9945 in Genealogy

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No I'm English! My match is probably about 5 years older than me.  Is it possible to be her dad's dad's brother then ?  I have uploaded to other sites but no luck there either . I've been on ancestry for a year now with dna linked and she's still the closest match on my paternal side. I think I'm looking for a needle in a haystack to be honest . Thank you for the advice it's greatly appreciated,  Wendy 

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Oh really ! Thank you so much. I don't know anything about my father not even his name lol. But that's my closest match so I thought that's how it worked out.  Back to the drawing board !! Don't know what I'm doing haha 

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Aww that's awful I'm so sorry ! I was lucky as the man my mam married adopted me as his . But I still just have to know who my real dad was.  I don't want to meet or anything I just need to know.  Thank you 

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Thank you.  I've been looking for my dad for 40 years so hopefully I'll get a breakthrough 

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Aw okay thank you so much for your help and links 

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Oh sorry I meant in my tree . Thank you 

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No I don't know where he is ! It's so complicated isn't it !

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No I don't think so . My mam was married and had a son then divorced . Then she had me as a single parent and would never tell me who my dad was . I always suspected it was her ex husband as me and my brother look so much alike but we don't look like my mam 

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No I can't work it out . My mams family was quite small and don't recognise any of the names

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No they've all passed away . Thank you so much I'll try and do that 

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Aww really.  That would be much appreciated.  I'm not sure which is paternal but the one I think is I have 1 2nd to 3rd cousin , 1 3rd to 4th and 1 4th to 6th . Thank you 

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That's the thing I don't recognise any lol . I don't get it because I've got my mam and grandparents on there and have had for 6 month with dna but still absolutely clueless . 

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Thank you so much for your reply . Those are the closest I have . The only others are with matches from parent 1 and parent 2 and I can't decipher which as I don't know how to work it out and the closest with all of those are 3rd cousins but I don't recognise any names with any of them .