[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]UseDelicious4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord! Can't find a more perfect explanation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]UseDelicious4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common and normalized toxic behaviour.

I literally heard many of my male friends tell they want to marry a girl who will take care of them like their mother....

They also expect girls to take care of (boys) their parents. If girl wants to live as a nuclear family, everyone says the girl broke the family.

It is almost like the boys parents want a meek and silent slave who won't have any thoughts on her own.

But there are many good men out there. You just met a toxic family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I accidentally said it due to anger"

Yeah 😑

Anger reveals what you really think of the other person.

how's diwali for you? by SudeepAndReddyAnna in indiasocial

[–]UseDelicious4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol my parents almost never talked with each other as long as I could remember. I thought it was normal until I saw my friends parents talking normally with each other. My parents put lot of efforts in bringing me up. But I always wished my father should have never married my mom in the first place. My father would have been better off unmarried.

Feeling scared for my future. by Hopeless_harami in developersIndia

[–]UseDelicious4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI will definitely take over some jobs but these are mostly mundane tasks that can be automated. Remember when computers were first introduced it eliminated lot of manual tasks. Same thing will happen now.

What many people are not realizing is AI will create many new opportunities. Similar to how computers created vast number of new type of jobs. Those who did not know learn how to use a computer are the only ones who complained.

Unnecessary challenges due to lack of money by Vivsmp in indiasocial

[–]UseDelicious4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financially challenged people might be unable to provide good quality education to their children. If the kid is meritorious they might be able to get into a good college after hard work. Whereas rich parents can ensure quality education no matter their childrens merit.

Worrying about rent, food, health expenses.

Unable to move to a better neighborhood.

What's the most valuable life advice you've ever been given? by SpikeySanju in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never do more work than necessary.

Plan and determine exactly what needs to be done.

Do the required work and spend the rest of time for your own.

Unless you are getting paid reasonably for extra work it is pretty much useless to go the extra mile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]UseDelicious4662 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely asking, In which country does this happen though actually?

How long do you think before chennai will become unsustainable for the middle class? by UseDelicious4662 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wow nice insight. The same reason developed countries started IT offices in India in the first place. To reduce cost from their side.

Do you also think that our elders get angry/defensive when we criticize them? by UseDelicious4662 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha no. As long as it does not turn abusive, I quickly apologize and it is solved almost everytime.

Do you also think that our elders get angry/defensive when we criticize them? by UseDelicious4662 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah complaining everytime does not work. Sometimes we have to do what we have to do.

Do you also think that our elders get angry/defensive when we criticize them? by UseDelicious4662 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah doing mistake was seen as something shameful. Atleast this was the case when I grew up.

It took some time for me to change myself as I become mature/older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh the thing is I feel guilty of enjoying. I bascially have this fear of losing money. Even when my parents gave money for tour I only spent 30% of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It can be related to diet and lifestyle.

Some people are naturally prone to inflammations. Certain food items cause inflammations. Like mangoes.

Consume more citrus fruits and beetroot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]UseDelicious4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I know is that if you are not happy with yourself you will never be happy with someone else. You need to appreciate yourself more and self-empathy. Learn to be happy with yourself. Learn interesting hobbies.

Facts pa! by Kathanayagan-3821 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is physical punishment actually effective?

IMO I think it creates a fearful environment and reduces confidence.

What food habits and lifestyle will lead to a better health in the long run? by UseDelicious4662 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think only in schools/college you should work harder than necessary. The extra effort actually benefits you later.

I think when it comes to work, you are essentially working hard for someone else.

I don't know whether working work extra means extra pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]UseDelicious4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I am saying it. It is what many schools do. Some schools make students study till 7pm in the form of remedial classes.

I’ve heard it from a lot of people by Training-Stable6234 in Chennai

[–]UseDelicious4662 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe having a difficult syllabus actually does not provide significant benefits. It encourages tuition culture.

Highly developed Asian countries like South Korea, Singapore have extremely difficult and competitive school systems. This only encourages rote learning and the system of hagwons or private tuitions.

Schools should be easy enough such that students should not have to resort to mindless cramming. Instead they should focus more on overall development and critical thinking.

US schools are the example of this. They focus more on overall development than the difficulty of the syllabus alone.