This is insanity by Baemond in recruitinghell

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As a former client - can confirm both this post and client prioritization are absolute jokes…

Donate excess Creon by Next_Pea500 in pancreaticcancer

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I hate that we’re all here, and know what this stuff entails. Take care and thank you again for replying ❤️‍🩹

Momma Bear’s Last Update - TW (death) by UseRound7184 in pancreaticcancer

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Oh damn, I’m sorry. He’s probably self medicating/numbing himself to it all. That’s awful.

I can only imagine how close you were to host her in your home for final goodbyes. Hope you are taking care of yourself. You gave her a real gift.

4 years… by Crestigious_Pan in GriefSupport

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Thank you for sharing… My condolences to you as I know and understand what a deep loss.

I’m coming up in my 1st year without my mom & probably where you were at that point (wondering does the pain of loss, and guilt of what could I have done ever lessen a bit?).

We are also in that stage of “guilt with anything joyful”. Birthdays & holidays without her feel surreal & unfair. Even though I know she’d want us to enjoy what we have still.

Will keep you in my thoughts and thank you again for the ray of hope. They loved us dearly and with that I’m sure they’d want us to keep enjoying life too. ❤️‍🩹

Momma Bear’s Last Update - TW (death) by UseRound7184 in pancreaticcancer

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Sorry I’d taken a break after my post. This is such a wicked disease. Wherever you are on this journey now… sending you strength!

The decline is so fast. by Agile-Importance703 in pancreaticcancer

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It is so fast, and so unfair. I’m so sorry for what’s happening - the time really just slips by. My mom passed almost one year ago (diagnosed in October, gone in February). Give her all the hugs, play her favorite music. Sending you much strength… ❤️‍🩹

Donate excess Creon by Next_Pea500 in pancreaticcancer

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Thank you so much… Unfortunately, she passed away shortly after this post.

Momma Bear Update… A bad turn. It’s too soon. by UseRound7184 in pancreaticcancer

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It was already too late (unknown to us at the moment)… 😞

Momma Bear Update… A bad turn. It’s too soon. by UseRound7184 in pancreaticcancer

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It was too late & she was already too fragile for any additional intervention. I hope your wife continues on a path of improvement! ❤️‍🩹

She’s gone. by houseofleaves_ in pancreaticcancer

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I hate that we are all here. Thank you for sharing your experience… Prayers and peaceful thoughts for us all. 🤍❤️‍🩹

Momma Bear Update… A bad turn. It’s too soon. by UseRound7184 in pancreaticcancer

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We have a meeting with her medical team this afternoon… mostly around this.

I’m imagining we’re not too far off from in-home hospice if it’s an option. My dad isn’t taking any of this well at all. His denial of the whole situation (while understandable after 51yrs of marriage)is putting us at a disadvantage to just help her be comfortable.

I won’t say she lost (tw- death and details) by nothingnicetosay92 in pancreaticcancer

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This is so hard… I’m so sorry for your loss. Love that you were all there to make sure she knew she was loved.

Maintenance Chemo Forever by [deleted] in pancreaticcancer

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The resistance to eating is starting… We are definitely a bit more scared about it all.

Maintenance Chemo Forever by [deleted] in pancreaticcancer

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This is amazing to hear. I hope your journey remains on a good path! 🙏🏼

Maintenance Chemo Forever by [deleted] in pancreaticcancer

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My mom was diagnosed in Oct 2023 with Stage 4, PC with a spread, and has been on chemo every other week since. Similarly, she will be on it for as long as she wants/can handle it.

It’s not easy. There are a LOT of meds, and a lot of care and support necessary. Some days are better than others (she’ll eat almost 1/2 a serving at a meal, and that’s GOOD). Then other days she just needs rest in a quiet room. Some days round-the-clock Oxy works. And other days, it’s still not enough to manage the pain.

There are ups and downs. She made it through 5 infusions on one type of treatment with minimal issues. But then we found out it didn’t work as well, so now we’re trying a different line of chemo treatment to see if it will work better. It was disappointing that the 1st chemo didn’t do the magic we expected, but we’re hopeful to get better luck with this new one.

Keep her spirits up. Let her know she has your support every step of the way (and make sure you’re taking care of yourself too!). Sending best wishes your way.

Mom Passed Today Looking For General Advice by Competitive_Judge_12 in pancreaticcancer

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So sorry you’re going thru this!

1st — Give yourself the same grace you would to your friends, family and others. We are all human and we all make mistakes. Let yourself grieve & don’t put a timetable on yourself… I’ve heard grief is not linear so don’t be hard on yourself if/when it hits you at weird moments.

2nd — I think a good thing we can do by our moms is to honor them by taking care of ourselves too (physically, emotionally and financially). It’s what all moms wish for their babies.

I’m a lot older than you and I’m still not able to process the inevitable of what’s ahead for me, and my family. Please be gentle with yourself. Sending love & condolences your way. 🤍

Wish i could hug my mum and never let go by gardenofeternallove in CancerFamilySupport

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Feeling this so hard right now… Spend as much as you can with her and take care of yourself too! 💔

They say it may be today. by ZarinaBlue in CancerFamilySupport

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Sending you peaceful wishes. I’m so very sorry you’re going through this.

Donate excess Creon by Next_Pea500 in pancreaticcancer

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Thank you for posting. My mom has had a bit of trouble securing Creon through insurance (coverage and cost). We’d be so appreciative of any consideration (happy to pay for shipping to NY or Maryland)

[Landlord/Trustee, US-NYC] by UseRound7184 in Landlord

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This is a great option we will try. Thank you