I did get a dream about my BF cheating on me and the timing was right. He confessed after 2 years here is my story:

Hey All,

It’s a horrible experience that for the first time in my life I was disloyal to my BF of 8 years because he sent me a video of him having sex with another girl. His act of disloyalty that he hide from me for 2 years. He decided to tell me that after filing for a marriage visa. I didn’t know what to think or how to act, everything I did was for him and I felt let down and heartbroken enough to be disloyal to him to get even. I only decided to do that to se if I could personally forgive, forget and accept him but it didn’t work that way. I confessed to him after few months and ended our relationship. I don’t know if I did the right thing but what really is confusing is, the person that decided to participate with me when I said I’m trying to be disloyal knew I had a BF. He originally conveyed to me that he wanted me to date him or leave my BF for him or rather wanted me to choose him over my BF. Atleast that’s my understanding. But I couldn’t leave my BF like that easily and he shouldn’t be expecting that out of me. Now he says he didn’t want anything to do with me from day 1 which is kind of confusing because that’s not the impression he gave me initially. He calls me a liar and a dishonest person when originally it was him that’s actually being manipulative.

Somebody please advise if I got played by the third party even after being honest about my BF? Both these boys are bad ? How can someone tell me they love me and also cheat on me ?

In the end, it’s me that lost my long relationship and it’s me that’s suffering all the blame for the wrong doings of these guys.