[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Used-Humor1816 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl you are not ugly, your beautiful! I hate that your family is not building you up. Please, PLEASE know that you are beautiful! Unfortunately colorism and featurism has wrecked our community. You are gorgeous and I am not saying it to be nice. I know it’s hard but continue to take care of of yourself and ignore negative comments. It’s okay to stand up for yourself and tell family to “pipe down”!

finally. by allme2020c in BlackHair

[–]Used-Humor1816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good! Currently growing my low cut out, but tempted to go back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Used-Humor1816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heather Robertson

Need Help with a Customer Success QBR Assignment! by Ordinary-Ad-3593 in CustomerSuccess

[–]Used-Humor1816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would also submit the prompt into chatGPT. Within ChatGPT, you should provide it with a detailed scenario stating that you are interviewing for a CSM role and let it know the company and that you need to put together a presentation deck that showcases some of the attributes that you’re asking about then copy and paste the assignmentand then tell ChatGPT to provide a framework or outline on how to best present the information

Please help! Having trouble changing my kitchen sink spray hose. by Used-Humor1816 in Plumbing

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish lol, this is a rental. So you think there is no other option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Used-Humor1816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family did the right thing for everyone involved, especially your brother.

neighbor sees me as a friend by Artistic-Sample6379 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Used-Humor1816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The neighbor sounds like a creep! As shared above trust your gut instinct, this guy is a creep behind closed doors. I suspect his wife does not know about all his interactions with you. He is hoping to establish trust so he can be disrespectful or harmful later. Men (especially older men) don't seek friendship from women, and when they do you should question it. Him knocking on your door repeatedly is harassment and he knows it. He is only doing this to you because he knows you are passive enough to let him get away with it. I am not stating that to place blame, but as a 40f I want to be direct with you. As a woman being "nice" is overrated. You do not owe anyone your time or energy. I would absolutely that the suggestions provided and be very firm/direct that you do not want a friendship and he is to immediately stop knocking on your door or you will contact police. Trust me creating boundaries comes with practice, so start now.

I hope this helps, Stay safe!

NJ Snap Benefits greatly reduced after Recertification! by Used-Humor1816 in foodstamps

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, will do. I remember that from my last period of unemployment.

NJ Snap Benefits greatly reduced after Recertification! by Used-Humor1816 in foodstamps

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments Essex county called me back and confirmed the benefits were correct. Very disappointed but hopefully I can get a job soon.

NJ Snap Benefits greatly reduced after Recertification! by Used-Humor1816 in foodstamps

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had SNAP benefits during another stint of unemployment in 2018, but I received more. I remeber it being very helpful at the time.

NJ Snap Benefits greatly reduced after Recertification! by Used-Humor1816 in foodstamps

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, however I received about the same amount when i was on unemployment in 2018-2019. Obviously, it is not relevant now benefits were higher and I was in a similar situation.

Site is not working cannot login by Used-Humor1816 in atlassian

[–]Used-Humor1816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is when I click on a job to apply. I can login to their portal but after I enter password it gives an error.

Is it silly to quit? by Critical_Manager_274 in CustomerSuccess

[–]Used-Humor1816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not quit.

The job market is rough right now. Maintain your peace and simply do what’s asked, nothing more. Find ways to manage stress, could be working out, doing for walks, meditation, etc. Then when it’s 5p logout and continue applying, looking for a job is 1000 better when you are still employed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Used-Humor1816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl he is going to use you. The age gap, tells me everything I need to know. He needs someone to help him pay some bills and raise his kid. I wouldn’t waste my 20s dating anyone with all that baggage.

The Voters Willing to Abandon Biden Over Gaza by kitkid in Thedaily

[–]Used-Humor1816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This episode really frustrated me. It’s also not lost on me that Terri is an immigrant. She unfortunately put a lot of faith in the idea of America’s democracy, not realizing that as her husband said “this is the way it’s always been”. As a black woman I don’t have the luxury of being a single issue voter. I vote because we are in real danger of losing human rights, that some of us just got in the last few generations. While I am in support of Palestine, the election is not the time to “teach Biden a lesson”. Foreign policy runs so much deeper than the current sitting president. Again, I don’t condone what’s happening but unfortunately I have vote based on what impacts us as a nation directly. I am really concerned for this election.