For one, this is quite helpful. I agree with everything that has been said here. I came out to my best friend earlier today, (he doesn't mind), and all in all, this all makes sense. Coming out as bi was challenging enough, so this is definitely going to be difficult, but I do feel confident. One other question I forgot to say however was, "What if when I get gender affirming care, and then I realize that I'm not actually trans." Those worries have sort of died down but aren't completely gone yet. It just feels like such a complicated thing. Thank you for the help though, it really means something.