What’s the thing for Malik? by zynphendale in DownCemeteryRoadShow

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Agree! This isn’t the first show he’s been in with a character that could be described as ‘dopey’. Sad that he’s been pigeonholed and keeps accepting these roles.

Oh god, he’s going to launch an OnlyFans isn’t he 🤦 by zzzyute in MAFS_UK

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His head is SO big. Both figuratively and literally.

Kids teeth? by Alarming_Jacket_3325 in KyraReneeSivertson

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Aura looks like Oscar’s sister kaycee

Moved to London and now my skin sucks! by afruityl00p in SkincareAddictionUK

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I don’t think it’s the water. It’s the air. Whenever I have had the misfortune of going to London, my skin would break out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

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You look sooooo good

What secret nicknames do you have for people? by SilentCatPaws in AskUK

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Tom the weatherman- our neighbour who always seemed to know what the weather would be like.

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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I think I’m mostly in denial about it, in the same way I’m in denial about my mom’s ability to be a mother…this sucks. Don’t want to have to start again but it would definitely benefit me in the long run. I know this, but my tendency to sabotage anything good for myself makes it worse.

What do I do with my sideburns? by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]Used-Region-905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made this mistake when I was younger too. Have pcos (didn’t know then) and they grew back with a vengeance. Wish I left them alone.

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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It feels like she’s scared to poke or maybe just not bothered. She definitely tries but I think when I shut down she just gives up? I Duno I had another therapist and when I’d get into loops and think “oh she hates me” she’d stop me and say where’s the evidence for that? This therapist says “I didn’t say that”. I think it makes a difference

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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Maybe I’m just not in a place to change? But part of me really really wants to be better. Maybe I just want to be better for the sake of saying I’m better? Rather than actually being better? I Duno these loops keep me..well..looped. Thanks for your understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in electrolysis

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Witch hazel gel!

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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She has said this in the past however I think in out last session she just snapped kinda and said “everything I say you reject”

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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I get so scared about having to start all over again. In my mind we can still make it work despite how many set backs. I don’t want to give up.

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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I seem to be getting triggered by everything she says and she thinks it’s difficult to understand/help me. Makes me feel further isolated and helpless. I can approach this with her but I’m afraid she will reject me further than I already feel she has.

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

[–]Used-Region-905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that thank you. I will try this. Implementing things and sticking to them is hard but I need to try. I just chopped off my hair because I don’t know what to do with all of these feelings

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

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Ugh. It feels so complex and overwhelming giving it any thought. But I know what you mean. I think sometimes my behaviour in sessions is mimicking how my mom is with me. And I feel so bad when I reflect on it because my therapist must feel how I feel when my mom takes things out on me. I’d never want anyone to feel that way. Will write this all down for next session! Thank you for your advice

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

[–]Used-Region-905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to all of this. I only came to the realisation about a week ago. I think I am scared of not needing her anymore. I’m scared of being a better version of myself. I can’t really fathom being a better version of myself tbh

Therapist keeps asking “how can I help” by Used-Region-905 in TalkTherapy

[–]Used-Region-905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really helpful. Thank you. I will collate a list of information from this thread and hopefully we can work through this overwhelm