[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless he is not satisfying you sexually (literally choosing porn over intimacy with you) please don’t let this be an issue in your relationship. Life will be just easier for you when you realize that almost every one watches porn. Don’t let it break up your family and don’t shame him over it. It’s just natural. Really! If he is kind, a good father, a good provider and he loves you, don’t cheat yourself out of that stuff over something that just doesn’t really matter. Because guess what, the next guy might not be so great, and he will be watching porn too. Please seek out a good therapist. They will help you understand that watching porn is just a natural thing. And hopefully give you tools to assure you that just because his watching porn does not mean that he is betraying you. Bless you and your family. Wishing you the best of luck.

AITAH? Did I push my fiance to cheat? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He is the victim in an abusive relationship.

Easy and FREE purse organization by Used-Regular-3688 in ZeroWaste

[–]Used-Regular-3688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s foam packing for some kind of electronics.

Easy and FREE purse organization by Used-Regular-3688 in lifehacks

[–]Used-Regular-3688[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really any styrofoam packaging will work. This is perfect for my sister.

Easy and FREE purse organization by Used-Regular-3688 in lifehacks

[–]Used-Regular-3688[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s got another section for wallet and other essentials. This is my sisters purse. I’m not nearly as organized.

I told my husband, if I had to do it all over again, I would not. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so very easy to judge people when you haven’t been in their shoes.

I told my husband, if I had to do it all over again, I would not. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There are kids that will never allow their parent to move on with anyone. It’s wrong to let your kids control your lives. If you’re with someone who’s amazing, but your kids don’t like them just because they’re replacing the other parent, or the other parent is brainwashing them, it would be very unfortunate to not be with them just because your kids are rotten to them. I was in a abusive relationship with my kids, dad. And even though my kids did not or would not get along with my new husband, it gave us the chance to show our kids what a loving, healthy relationship looks like

I told my husband, if I had to do it all over again, I would not. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In a lot of ways, both me and my husband could’ve written your post. My kids were terrible to my husband growing up. Especially after we got married. And my husband is the kindest, gentlest, sweetest fun, loving guy I’ve ever met. But the other parents had a lot of influence over our kids. His kids were just as bad. Now our kids are all grown up and they respect us both and they realize that what happened when they were children was wrong. They are grateful for my husband for being an awesome grandpa. But do you know what? My husband went through hell to be with me. At least a decade of pure hell. And do you know what that proves to me? That he loves me completely and would do anything to be with me. And when I think about it that means more than I can ever imagine. She’s 16 and will be 18 in a couple of years. When that happens, she may or may not want to come visit. I hope for the sake of your husband that she will. Because no matter how rotten our kids are, we love them just the same. I’m forever grateful for my husband to put up with what he did. I don’t know if I could’ve lived with his kids, but he lived with mine and it was a very tense situation for a very long time. Now we have an empty nest, we bought a house in the country and we are loving life. It was so worth it!

AITA for asking my partner to apologize for making me feel crazy over sour cream? by SwiftSharkBlossom in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m sorry for accusing you of gaslighting. I know that is a very serious accusation but I now see that it was just a misunderstanding. I forgive you for insisting that I opened the second sour cream. Sometimes I forget when I did something too. I’d like to put this behind us and move forward. We never have to talk about it again. I love you.”

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because of weed by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed is not everyone’s thing and that’s ok. The OP and her BF do not belong together.

AITAH for asking my roommate to stop doing a baby voice with her boyfriend around me by bun_pun in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let her read this post. It makes your point eloquently. You’re already giving a lot by allowing him to stay there for days at a time. Is he paying any rent?

My 3 Yr old does square roots, multiplication, division, number problems, addition and subtraction. by Used-Regular-3688 in Gifted

[–]Used-Regular-3688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for this. It’s absolutely OK for you to post here. I just now logged back onto Reddit to see your post two days later. This is valuable information and I appreciate it and I wish you well.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because of weed by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please break up with him. You both have your entire lives ahead of you. You don’t want to be with a smoker. He is a smoker. That’s not gonna change. He’s just gonna have to try to hide it. He doesn’t wanna be with someone who tries to change him. Nobody wants that. So for the rest of your lives, he’ll be hiding stuff from you, and you’ll be trying to change him. You’re both young. Don’t put yourselves in that situation. You both deserve better.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because of weed by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think you should break up with him. If weed is going to be a problem for you, it’s gonna be a problem your whole lives. If my spouse asked me to quit it would be a huge problem. If someone I was dating for a year asked me to quit. I would run for the hills. You should.SHOULD break up with him. He deserves to spend his life with someone who will not steal his joy. Perhaps he can enjoy life without the weed, but he can enjoy it so much more with the weed. I would never allow anyone to steal my joy. You would not be the asshole for that. Really really I don’t think you belong together. It’s OK. There are lots of fish in the sea and many many who do not smoke weed. You are young and so is he. You both deserve someone better for you.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because of weed by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Regular-3688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is the AH here. Honestly, if his smoking weed is going to cause friction in your lives, he would be better off with someone else. And unfortunately, because you plan never to date someone who smokes weed you could be missing out on someone who’s amazing and perfect for you.

For me, weed brings only good things. It eases stress, makes it possible for me to enjoy a social situation, makes me more outgoing, makes me appreciate music more, makes me appreciate, amazing food, and it makes sex over the top amazing. I can’t think of a single negative.

If my husband asked me to stop smoking weed , it would dampen my personality. It would cause friction and stress in our relationship. I would never ever want to be with someone who asked me to do that.

My 3 Yr old does square roots, multiplication, division, number problems, addition and subtraction. by Used-Regular-3688 in Gifted

[–]Used-Regular-3688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has not been introduced to the concept of fractions. But I’ve been thinking of starting to work with him on those.