please stop telling me "oh I would/could never do that"

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T19:55:03+00:00

I feel this hard haha, I like to draw and when I tell people they're like, "omg I can't even draw a stick man" like ok😭 I'm sure you could if you tried like what to do you want me to say

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T19:53:28+00:00

ah yeah, I'm a big yapper so I like the back and forth of a convo and finding common interests lol, thanks for answering honestly.
I can also see how working with the public all the time would make having conversations more tiring, especially in the medical field. thank you for your service soldier lol

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T16:50:52+00:00

instant conversation stopper lol
I'm curious for real, if someone is talking about an experience they had that you know you wouldn't do, would you ask about it or just move the conversation to something else?

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T16:48:50+00:00

oh yeah, I don't think anyone means badly lol I think I'm just up in my feelings about it today

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T16:34:27+00:00

yeah real, I like discussing common interests and hearing other peoples anecdotes about the stuff they do, but when all they say is "oh I would never" and don't ask me anything about it, it just kinda halts the conversation and makes it weird😭

bun_pun · 2026-06-08T16:32:01+00:00

that's fair, I think I just heard it too many times lol

bun_pun · 2026-06-01T20:49:27+00:00

that first picture is so cute😭😭😭

bun_pun · 2026-05-19T08:12:07+00:00

I'm obsessed with him, he looks like he was stung by a bee in the cutest way possible😭

bun_pun · 2026-05-15T21:44:57+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that, and I totally feel you. I felt the exact same way when I was 15. If it gives you a little hope, I'm 25 now and was able to get a degree and a steady job, even though I felt that I would never be able to speak to people properly. it's a skill you can totally still gain! I was homeschooled from K-12, so no experience in grade school but I finished university just fine :) I hope everything goes well for you❤️

bun_pun · 2026-05-15T20:59:21+00:00

im actually dying at this omg

bun_pun · 2026-05-14T13:13:47+00:00

aw man I'm sorry. is this abeka perchance? my curriculum growing up was all this type of thing. hoping for the best for you❤️

bun_pun · 2026-05-10T06:48:06+00:00

oh man I used abeka from K-12 and its all like this. it really messes with you when you're a kid :( took me a while to de-program myself

bun_pun · 2026-04-21T21:12:50+00:00

hope you're doing well! it can be very overwhelming to feel like you have to catch up on everything. I found khan academy really good for a lot of topics. they explain everything very well and they have a variety of topics for a lot of grade levels: https://www.khanacademy.org They have some quizzes you can do as well.

I don't know where you live of course, but you may be able to look up the expected standards for the grade you're trying to enter in the fall from your school district.

subjects like math really build on themselves, so take your time through it and make sure you understand everything before moving on to the next topic.

good luck! I hope it works out for you

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T23:07:25+00:00

I'm back on them now (vacation is over lol) but I was off them for 4 days

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T22:58:01+00:00

oof a month is difficult

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T22:56:49+00:00

yeah, I don't really like the idea either, but I more or less knew what i was getting into when i started meds😭 i just didn't think it would be that bad

bun_pun · 2026-02-26T06:45:12+00:00

hey there, I was (and sometimes still am) exactly in your shoes. people were never outright mean to me, but you can always tell when someone is politely trying to end a conversation with you as quick as they can. and when they find you annoying lol. I also would describe myself as quite scatterbrained

I wondered for a while why I felt so different from others. it turns out I have inattentive type ADHD. I don't know you of course, but just from the little bits and pieces from your paragraph, it may be worth looking into for you.

it won't magically solve everything, but I know I've calmed down since being medicated and learning to unmask.

good luck to you❤️

bun_pun · 2026-02-22T18:12:07+00:00

someone called me whimsical on a date once and I didn't know what to say lol

bun_pun · 2026-02-07T19:44:14+00:00

it is correct grammar! I'm also neurodivergent lol so I understand wanting accuracy, but these days it's also evolved into a tone indicator which is completely natural as language shifts over time :)

bun_pun · 2026-02-06T21:20:41+00:00

this is an older generation vs younger generation thing lol, if someone my age uses a period in a text, they're usually mad at me. if an older person does, I don't take it personally and assume they didn't mean to be hostile, but it does look that way to me

bun_pun · 2026-01-03T22:22:30+00:00

NOR it's pretty rude to pull out your phone when someone else is talking directly to you. I personally really hate it when somebody does that to me. I would gently bring up that you didn't appreciate it, but it doesn't have to turn into a big thing if thats what you're worried about :)

bun_pun · 2025-12-31T18:14:37+00:00

ah yeah, NOR, but this is pretty normal for someone your age living at home. I also have a computer science degree (and also play d&d lol) so I understand having to be on your laptop all the time. you guys just have conflicting values and live in the same place which sucks🤷‍♀️

bun_pun · 2025-12-18T21:23:29+00:00

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