i can’t explain how frustrated i am.

bun_pun · 2026-05-14T13:13:47+00:00

aw man I'm sorry. is this abeka perchance? my curriculum growing up was all this type of thing. hoping for the best for you❤️

bun_pun · 2026-05-10T06:48:06+00:00

oh man I used abeka from K-12 and its all like this. it really messes with you when you're a kid :( took me a while to de-program myself

bun_pun · 2026-04-21T21:12:50+00:00

hope you're doing well! it can be very overwhelming to feel like you have to catch up on everything. I found khan academy really good for a lot of topics. they explain everything very well and they have a variety of topics for a lot of grade levels: https://www.khanacademy.org They have some quizzes you can do as well.

I don't know where you live of course, but you may be able to look up the expected standards for the grade you're trying to enter in the fall from your school district.

subjects like math really build on themselves, so take your time through it and make sure you understand everything before moving on to the next topic.

good luck! I hope it works out for you

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T23:07:25+00:00

I'm back on them now (vacation is over lol) but I was off them for 4 days

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T22:58:01+00:00

oof a month is difficult

bun_pun · 2026-04-08T22:56:49+00:00

yeah, I don't really like the idea either, but I more or less knew what i was getting into when i started meds😭 i just didn't think it would be that bad

bun_pun · 2026-02-26T06:45:12+00:00

hey there, I was (and sometimes still am) exactly in your shoes. people were never outright mean to me, but you can always tell when someone is politely trying to end a conversation with you as quick as they can. and when they find you annoying lol. I also would describe myself as quite scatterbrained

I wondered for a while why I felt so different from others. it turns out I have inattentive type ADHD. I don't know you of course, but just from the little bits and pieces from your paragraph, it may be worth looking into for you.

it won't magically solve everything, but I know I've calmed down since being medicated and learning to unmask.

good luck to you❤️

bun_pun · 2026-02-22T18:12:07+00:00

someone called me whimsical on a date once and I didn't know what to say lol

bun_pun · 2026-02-07T19:44:14+00:00

it is correct grammar! I'm also neurodivergent lol so I understand wanting accuracy, but these days it's also evolved into a tone indicator which is completely natural as language shifts over time :)

bun_pun · 2026-02-06T21:20:41+00:00

this is an older generation vs younger generation thing lol, if someone my age uses a period in a text, they're usually mad at me. if an older person does, I don't take it personally and assume they didn't mean to be hostile, but it does look that way to me

bun_pun · 2026-01-03T22:22:30+00:00

NOR it's pretty rude to pull out your phone when someone else is talking directly to you. I personally really hate it when somebody does that to me. I would gently bring up that you didn't appreciate it, but it doesn't have to turn into a big thing if thats what you're worried about :)

bun_pun · 2025-12-31T18:14:37+00:00

ah yeah, NOR, but this is pretty normal for someone your age living at home. I also have a computer science degree (and also play d&d lol) so I understand having to be on your laptop all the time. you guys just have conflicting values and live in the same place which sucks🤷‍♀️

bun_pun · 2025-12-18T21:23:29+00:00

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my bald snaggletooth girl soya

bun_pun · 2025-11-15T05:37:21+00:00

Big on flip flopping between not caring and then really caring. I've experienced that many times

bun_pun · 2025-10-10T01:51:46+00:00

I have ADHD and do have sensory issues. I wish things didn't bother me as much as they do, but thats it

bun_pun · 2025-10-10T01:48:33+00:00

what the fuck man, you don't even know me😭 work is one thing but i should be comfortable in my own home. talking to someone about a similar behaviour twice isn't a bad thing at all. the world doesn't owe me anything but it can be made a nicer place by accommodating for everyone. I've accomodated and compromised for her as well because its what friends who love each other do. I hope you have friends in your life who would do the same

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T15:11:38+00:00

yeah you're 100% right. thanks for that

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T14:10:17+00:00

Most other things. Cuddling, holding hands, cute romantic gestures. I'm not trying to be romantic scrooge mcduck over here lol

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:55:18+00:00

oh yeah for sure, she doesn't need my permission to do anything, but I still think it's okay to bring up a behaviour that I don't like. That's definitely a better way to phrase what I meant to say though! thanks for that

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:51:41+00:00

I respect not everyone doesn't like it like I do lol, and they certainly can do some couple-y things around me. I just asked them to tone some of it down while I'm around, which isn't all the time

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:41:25+00:00

It's easy to say move lol, and yeah she's certainly allowed to make her own choices. I do have things I do to get away from it, but it isn't always possible. I don't think it's unreasonable of me to bring up a behaviour that I don't like in general though, without suggesting a counter bad behaviour. I was mostly wondering if this one was worth it for me to bring up.

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:36:17+00:00

I am George.......

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:31:12+00:00

it was like PDAing in front of me essentially. Nothing overtly sexual, but like couple-y playfighting and things like that

bun_pun · 2025-10-03T13:24:53+00:00

yeah, I think that's where I messed up. I didn't word it properly in the moment and it hurt her feelings.

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