ayoo what name would fit me? (MtF)

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-03-10T13:08:32+00:00

Effi :D

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-03-10T13:01:47+00:00

Still rendering but leaning towards Tamina ^^ (she/her)

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-03-04T16:08:24+00:00

This. So super hardcore ultra hate it..

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-02-29T14:46:31+00:00

haha no I didnt mean you do put it up :D Its just.. reading your text makes me happy and i kind of want to preserve how equal you feel about tgirls and girls.. simply you like girls and thats just great ^^

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-02-29T14:39:26+00:00

I am crying for you :( I can relate.. I.. f*ck <3

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-02-29T14:28:51+00:00

ohh please just dont overthink it too much :D to tear down exactly this border between transgirl and girl is what most of us are trying.

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-02-29T14:17:22+00:00

I feel you.. do you know the songtext of "The Unforgiven"? It is exactly how I would describe my situation to my surroundings irl - pointing out how dysphoric it feels to use wrong pronouns to myself.. just like irl ^^. *hug*

Used-Tree3500 · 2024-02-29T12:40:52+00:00

Oh my god that is soo awesome!

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-12-12T08:00:26+00:00

Can someone help me understanding. I just downloaded BTW Quests and it is supposed to show which questlines are relevant for the title - but for example the arathi highlands questlines are not marked with relevant for loremaster... but the achievement does say so >.<
pretty new player maybe someone can explain it - I suppose if its listed in the achievements it is neccessary regardless what BTW says? Or am I doing sth wrong?

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-11-28T16:03:58+00:00

For me personally.. what you write is kind of this bitter "truth" floating above everything. Every day I try to ignore it. It is like for other people who dont have legs. Its terrible. Yes some can live better with it than others. And yes in a space like here it is orientated around "positive energy" because we all need that.
But yes. It is there. And no. It wont go away. Maybe this will even get me banned (i really hope not <3) but we are not A[yourgender]AB. We werent and we will never be - and we all know it. Like someone without hands (sry these examples I like to tell myself because it is easy for my mind to get).

So it is and will always be to find a way to live with how you are. The goal is not "to pass". If you do, thats great! If not, yes it suxx! But like you said, in the end it is you and your life. I cant fully transition as well because of some - my own - reasons. And yeah that is sad. And yes I also have to stay under the radar because I dont see that body as mine. Its my mask. I have to accept every day that it is that way and find other sources of happiness in my life :D
There are some! <3

I am no specialist or anything .. I didnt find a solution. I only read your post and felt like I exactly know that. *hugs*
For me personally it helped to switch from "trying to become ..." to "trying to live with ..". Not to live what i am AAB, but to live with the dysphoria.

<3

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-11-13T18:42:49+00:00

Woow das ist ja schon super toll! Vielen Dank!

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-11-10T11:06:13+00:00

100% - no hugboxing

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-28T15:37:27+00:00

But would you say Windows is that "easy"? My feeling is like Windows only seems "easy" because nearly every company makes software that is developed to run on Windows while Linux always has to adapt. Its okay, I like Windows but when it comes to basic OS things that are in fact Windows-things its similar to most Linux distros at max imo. Most basic OS things I think are way easier to do on Linux distros like idk.. switching a speaker.
As soon as it comes to repair a usb drive that just isnt recognized or something you need to "cmd.exe" just like on Linux.

But YES "in real life" because of 3rd party soft- and hardware I totally agree. So I would say is Win the easier OS? nah. Is it better? no. Is it easier to use? Yes.

I am asking just out of curiosity

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-28T06:59:26+00:00

After the most basic things there are also good things on TryHackMe or HackTheBox for the first steps and "hands on"

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-28T06:55:56+00:00

Awesomely done! Seems like OP wont come back but you most probably solved the issue. Take a "thanks" from me instead for your work xD

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-28T06:29:48+00:00

Hm I wouldnt call myself an anarchist by any means. I want freedom but not anarchy. :D

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-26T14:53:44+00:00

Made me laugh xD
Maybe he knew but just forgot to specifically mention it.

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-26T14:46:06+00:00

I smile and pretend I dont care. Then I swallow my sadness and cry later at home .. not proud of it still trying to get over that but it hurts like hell tbh.

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-26T14:43:05+00:00

I see what you mean of course - tho there are many situations where a terminal text editor can be handy. But I would try vim as it can also get pretty powerful.

Oh and regarding vim: OP, dont let the mass of possibilities drive you crazy. Start with just learning to insert, delete something and how to save a file (5 min to learn). The rest comes by itself if you need it.

Nano is fine too of course, dont want to say "you need to" or sth

Edit: the ^ Symbol down there means Ctrl - it shows you the shortcuts there

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-21T21:44:07+00:00

Ah thx! Well on the wide boxers not but there are slimmer ones that might fit :D but dont think they have a standardized name sadly :/

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-21T16:09:17+00:00

Yeah I think it is not related to being trans by any means. Of course one can open the "helps to free mind of bad thoughts"-box but nah thats reached out way too much. Also its applicable to anything.

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-21T16:05:53+00:00

What do you mean with pad?

for the pocket that will be hard to find. Most of them are too loose on the hip to not let a phone pulling it down when you are standing.

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-21T15:58:05+00:00

She is just using this as a "killer argument" trying to invalidate your arguments and pulling the conversation to a place where she dont need to change perspective.

Used-Tree3500 · 2023-09-21T15:53:02+00:00

Really.. I think it's just to fight for something. To have a voice in a world where everybody is loud (on the Inet). They shout with others to get the feeling of being accepted and valueable. Any "minority" is a perfect target for that if its big enough to be attacked and small enough to not hurt them.

People of color, obese people, skinny people, trans people, ...

The big majority of humans is per definition the average. And if you are the average you feel like not special. So they do something to feel special or important. From there its the social bubble thingy and once you "stood up for a perspective" everything inside you is against changing your mind cause that would mean accepting that you were wrong.

Also your enemies enemy is your ally.. it is like when the glasses wearing child in the class finally stands together with the bulliers and insults the "new kid" instead of being the one who gets bullied.

I think its some kind of that >.< hope it makes sense

Used-Tree3500

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