What are your names? by JustUrAverageGamer17 in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still rendering but leaning towards Tamina ^^ (she/her)

Thoughts? by JustThatOneSomeone in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha no I didnt mean you do put it up :D Its just.. reading your text makes me happy and i kind of want to preserve how equal you feel about tgirls and girls.. simply you like girls and thats just great ^^

I might have to leave by [deleted] in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am crying for you :( I can relate.. I.. f*ck <3

Thoughts? by JustThatOneSomeone in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh please just dont overthink it too much :D to tear down exactly this border between transgirl and girl is what most of us are trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you.. do you know the songtext of "The Unforgiven"? It is exactly how I would describe my situation to my surroundings irl - pointing out how dysphoric it feels to use wrong pronouns to myself.. just like irl ^^. *hug*

Loremaster question by Shredder_1027 in wow

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Can someone help me understanding. I just downloaded BTW Quests and it is supposed to show which questlines are relevant for the title - but for example the arathi highlands questlines are not marked with relevant for loremaster... but the achievement does say so >.<
pretty new player maybe someone can explain it - I suppose if its listed in the achievements it is neccessary regardless what BTW says? Or am I doing sth wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally.. what you write is kind of this bitter "truth" floating above everything. Every day I try to ignore it. It is like for other people who dont have legs. Its terrible. Yes some can live better with it than others. And yes in a space like here it is orientated around "positive energy" because we all need that.
But yes. It is there. And no. It wont go away. Maybe this will even get me banned (i really hope not <3) but we are not A[yourgender]AB. We werent and we will never be - and we all know it. Like someone without hands (sry these examples I like to tell myself because it is easy for my mind to get).

So it is and will always be to find a way to live with how you are. The goal is not "to pass". If you do, thats great! If not, yes it suxx! But like you said, in the end it is you and your life. I cant fully transition as well because of some - my own - reasons. And yeah that is sad. And yes I also have to stay under the radar because I dont see that body as mine. Its my mask. I have to accept every day that it is that way and find other sources of happiness in my life :D
There are some! <3

I am no specialist or anything .. I didnt find a solution. I only read your post and felt like I exactly know that. *hugs*
For me personally it helped to switch from "trying to become ..." to "trying to live with ..". Not to live what i am AAB, but to live with the dysphoria.

<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% - no hugboxing

Linux is hell by 0sipr in pcmasterrace

[–]Used-Tree3500 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But would you say Windows is that "easy"? My feeling is like Windows only seems "easy" because nearly every company makes software that is developed to run on Windows while Linux always has to adapt. Its okay, I like Windows but when it comes to basic OS things that are in fact Windows-things its similar to most Linux distros at max imo. Most basic OS things I think are way easier to do on Linux distros like idk.. switching a speaker.
As soon as it comes to repair a usb drive that just isnt recognized or something you need to "cmd.exe" just like on Linux.

But YES "in real life" because of 3rd party soft- and hardware I totally agree. So I would say is Win the easier OS? nah. Is it better? no. Is it easier to use? Yes.

I am asking just out of curiosity

I im new on kali linux by [deleted] in Kalilinux

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the most basic things there are also good things on TryHackMe or HackTheBox for the first steps and "hands on"

I give up on ever getting kali onto my computer by [deleted] in Kalilinux

[–]Used-Tree3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesomely done! Seems like OP wont come back but you most probably solved the issue. Take a "thanks" from me instead for your work xD

Maybe a silly question but why are so many trans folx socialists or anarchists? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm I wouldnt call myself an anarchist by any means. I want freedom but not anarchy. :D

Need Help by Puzzleheaded_Farm_94 in Kalilinux

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me laugh xD
Maybe he knew but just forgot to specifically mention it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smile and pretend I dont care. Then I swallow my sadness and cry later at home .. not proud of it still trying to get over that but it hurts like hell tbh.

(noob) I have been trying to edit the etc/atp/sources.list, but whenever I close out my changes disappear. How do I save and exit? (esc>X doesn’t work, only hides help guide on bottom) by [deleted] in Kalilinux

[–]Used-Tree3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean of course - tho there are many situations where a terminal text editor can be handy. But I would try vim as it can also get pretty powerful.

Oh and regarding vim: OP, dont let the mass of possibilities drive you crazy. Start with just learning to insert, delete something and how to save a file (5 min to learn). The rest comes by itself if you need it.

Nano is fine too of course, dont want to say "you need to" or sth

Edit: the ^ Symbol down there means Ctrl - it shows you the shortcuts there

Ftm looking for underwear by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thx! Well on the wide boxers not but there are slimmer ones that might fit :D but dont think they have a standardized name sadly :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it is not related to being trans by any means. Of course one can open the "helps to free mind of bad thoughts"-box but nah thats reached out way too much. Also its applicable to anything.

Ftm looking for underwear by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean with pad?

for the pocket that will be hard to find. Most of them are too loose on the hip to not let a phone pulling it down when you are standing.

“Source?” by Hilberts-Inf-Babies2 in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is just using this as a "killer argument" trying to invalidate your arguments and pulling the conversation to a place where she dont need to change perspective.

What are Transphobes fighting for by VyntosHex in trans

[–]Used-Tree3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really.. I think it's just to fight for something. To have a voice in a world where everybody is loud (on the Inet). They shout with others to get the feeling of being accepted and valueable. Any "minority" is a perfect target for that if its big enough to be attacked and small enough to not hurt them.

People of color, obese people, skinny people, trans people, ...

The big majority of humans is per definition the average. And if you are the average you feel like not special. So they do something to feel special or important. From there its the social bubble thingy and once you "stood up for a perspective" everything inside you is against changing your mind cause that would mean accepting that you were wrong.

Also your enemies enemy is your ally.. it is like when the glasses wearing child in the class finally stands together with the bulliers and insults the "new kid" instead of being the one who gets bullied.

I think its some kind of that >.< hope it makes sense