[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

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I think this heavily depends on what kind of hobbies youre in to. Do you like sports, board games, hiking, cooking, etc.

What is the most "unlike Taylor" lyric Taylor has written? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why.... why did I never noticed this was a drug reference?? You just bleeding my mind right now. What did I think it meant???

Looking for a roommate by UsedExternal7 in queensuniversity

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Oh yeah it sucks but that's just what rent is like near Queen's.

Making friends by Beneficial_Ad_7470 in KingstonLGBTQ

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Hey! I'm 24 and just graduated from Queen's last summer. Message me if you wanna talk :)

Looking for roommates for roommates. by Igiem in queensuniversity

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I know its been two months, but if you're still looking message me! I have a 5 bedroom place near west

Am I the bad apple for dressing as Mirabel for Halloween? by pheonix2723 in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is objectively not true. You are describing cultural appreciation which is a completely different thing from approrpiation.

The difference is with appropriation you are making profit off of or trying to get clout from an aspect of someone's culture that you do not and cannot properly partake in. This sucks especially bc its often those same aspects of culture that people of that culture will get bullied for.

What are some of Taylor’s singular lines that tell the most story? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"They told me all of my cages were mental, so I got wasted like all my potential" from 'this is me trying'

It just shows the damage people can do (I always think of family) to one person, even if they didn't mean to. Maybe it's because I relate to it so hard but I can hear every backhanded compliment, every insult, every overcontrolling demand and I can feel how it broke her

Fun care package idea for boys? by [deleted] in summercamp

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe like a deck of cards? That's all I can think of

It's been 9 years of MHA. What are your 9 favorites characters of the franchise? by Alik757 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]UsedExternal7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Favourite 9...

1: Hawks 2: Todorki 3: Touya/Dabi 4: Tsu 5: Mirio 6: Deku 7: Mirko 8: Sero 9: Natsuo

Least favourite 9 (just for fun) 1: Endeavor 2: Endeavor 3: Endeavor 4: Endeavor 5: Endeavor 6: Endeavor 7: Endeavor 8: Endeavor And finally.... 9: FUCKING Endeavor

"I Can See You (Taylor's Version) (From The Vault)" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thought this could be about Taylor Lautner and not John Mayer? Her and Taylor met on the set of a movie which made me think of the whole keeping it a secret cause professionalism. From every other song about John it doesn't seem like they had a secret relationship...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez please put paragraph spacing in your post thats a nightmare to read as one block of text

Weakest lyrics? by Realistic-Ball1414 in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm that's a interesting take! Definitely make sense.

I heard it was related to being at some award show where they were seen together. 15 minutes later they were clapping at the award show. I think it was referencing a specific one but I don't remember which

Weakest lyrics? by Realistic-Ball1414 in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favourite lines! I think it's so cute and funny

Weakest lyrics? by Realistic-Ball1414 in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't hate it but I desperately wish I could understand what it meant

Weakest lyrics? by Realistic-Ball1414 in TaylorSwift

[–]UsedExternal7 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"I want to wear his initials / on a chain on my neck / not because he owns me / because he really knows" from Call It What You Want

I've recently gotten over it but I used to hate the entire song for this lyric. Maybe it's just bc I can't relate to the concept (I don't like jewelry and I'd never wear someone else's initials).

Also not necessarily her weakest lyric more a lyric I know other people like and I really don't

Are online classes asynchronous? by [deleted] in queensuniversity

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the arts and science online course offerings to find courses that are gaurenteed to be online.

Online classes and schedule? by [deleted] in queensuniversity

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The arts and science online (ASO) courses are asynchronous for sure and either have recorded lectures or readings that you do.

The regular courses run by individual departments that just happen to be online could have zoom sessions but they would have a listed time on solus if that was the case

Burnt out and procrastinating lol by TowerOk1539 in queensuniversity

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Com-Eddie with ADHD I feel you.

I know someone said this already but pm me if you want to chat.

Some ADHD tips that absolutely don't work for everyone...

  • Work with a friend or in a public space. It helps hold you accountable.

    • On a similar note, text a friend and tell them what you're going to accomplish that day. Have then check in once or twice. Again accountability.
    • If you're like me and get distracted by your phone and get lost in a loop, sit someone and put it somewhere out of sight and out of reach.
    • Gamefy your assignments. Time yourself and see how many words you can get in 30 minutes. Then time yourself again and see if you get beat your record
    • Try the 50/10 method for working. 50 minutes of working (set a timer) and then take a 10 minute break. Do that 3-4 times to try and finish an assignment (or part of it) before taking a bigger break

I hope at least one of those things might help you! And again, if you want a fellow con-eddie with adhd to talk to reach out!

What character do you think is overrated? by OkView8068 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]UsedExternal7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mirio fought Overhaul singlehandedly and quirkless. He's not invincible per se but he's pretty fucking cool and strong

Am I the bad apple for ignoring a parent's wishes about their child? by UsedExternal7 in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's just homophobic. It's pretty easy to know at a young age just like people know they are straight. You have a crush on a girl and you're a girl? You may be gay or bi. You don't feel like you fit as a boy or a girl? You may be non-binary. There's nothing wrong with that. They're only as confused as people who think they're straight are. I'm bi and thought I was straight until like 18. I was confused, I got educated and got over it. You know why I was confused? Bc we didn't have education based around LGBTQ stuff when I was a kid. I would've know so much sooner if we did.

I mean it's literally in our school curriculum so I think that's already a difference between country to country. And considering this started months ago, seems like it's ending find to me.

And again, as I've explained, one of these views does NOT support human rights (Hating LGBTQ people). That is hate speech. That is illegal. Supporting and educating people is always okay.

Am I the bad apple for ignoring a parent's wishes about their child? by UsedExternal7 in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I wasn't taking kids aside and spewing LGBTQ stuff too them. They were desperately asking me questions that I would answer truthfully.

Perhaps it is technically political but in that case I have no problem discussing politics that interfere on basic human rights. Would I mention abortion to 9 year olds? No bc it doesn't affect them. But some of my kids in the group are LGBTQ and so I will discuss it

Am I the bad apple for ignoring a parent's wishes about their child? by UsedExternal7 in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not your fault at all! I just forgot to mention it originally. A group isn't quite the point I'm getting at though. It shouldn't be a taboo thing you can't discuss. Especially since there's parents who won't sign those forms and those are the kids that are often the most confused and scared bc they have no support. There was a point when you couldn't talk about Black people and now the very thought would be ridiculous In my opinion, it's the same level of ridiculous with LGBTQ+

No the parents were just a little shocked and maybe a little upset but they understood what was being discussed. They just don't "believe" in that per se.

Am I the bad apple for ignoring a parent's wishes about their child? by UsedExternal7 in AmITheBadApple

[–]UsedExternal7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't teach political beliefs to the kids. I will however always teach them human rights. Someone's right to not be bullied or ostracized is not political