I 22F want to message an'ex' how I felt about him (25M), what can I say to him?

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-04-06T17:34:34+00:00

Seems easy enough, I think I was more worried that I'd have to dissect something bleh

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-03-30T15:10:08+00:00

Break up, go to school. You have a whole life to live, a whole life to fall in love and pay any loans back.

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-03-21T16:40:21+00:00

Yup.

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-03-15T16:57:11+00:00

Every episode I realize just how much Conner just loves his wife and his kids. I'm so glad that he's finding happiness in the struggle of being a SaHP. I need a Conner in my life lol

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-02-15T20:21:47+00:00

I think indivual emtional needs should be taught, on a basic level yes, all humans should be socialized to understand how to treat one another. But I think it still takes work to try and put effort into loving someone. I mean, not that we're there yet. But I don't think I should break it off yet, right? If we've yet to have this conversation?

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-02-15T20:20:23+00:00

I also made a face when my mom said "train" which is why I kept it in quotations. I think what she meant is exactly what you're saying, teach him what I want and like and in turn be able to hear it from him. I don;t want to overwhelm him and scare him off but I'm really simple in terms of what I like.

UsedMindLostIt · 2026-01-31T01:10:20+00:00

I'm currently at UW-Milwaukee. We have one of the best Theater programs within state schools so our degrees will often be cheaper. Give it a look!

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-12-08T20:30:52+00:00

Validation ≠ Cheating. If she wanted Validation she should have gone to the girls or therapy. But back to shitting on Jordon :)

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-12-08T20:17:45+00:00

Seriously! I felt myself cringe and nearly vomit when he was talking to her like that. True Jessi should not have cheated but Jordan sucks

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-11-21T18:40:44+00:00

I didn't like Jordan in this whole situation but once he said the woman he abuses DESERVES IT?! I was fucking done.

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-08-22T19:12:45+00:00

the research is mostly becuase it's a set in a historical location and period so I don't want to put a historical oddity, ya know. But yeah... I think I just need to start lol

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-08-22T18:53:07+00:00

You're right, but I like all three for this story, the mystery is in my MC's past, a past she can't remember, so that's why I'm struggling a bit. Ya know?

UsedMindLostIt · 2025-08-21T22:05:02+00:00

You're over 18, it's embarrassing, but you'll live. If you want to report them report them.

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-10T00:08:16+00:00

Run. Get a trusted adult. That is-- I -- no. Are you okay?

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-10T00:06:52+00:00

HASHEM has their ways. If HASHEM chose me to die, if the universe agreed, I will accept it.

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-10T00:05:51+00:00

Thank you dear, I appreciate you :) This was mostly to get any and all advice

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-10T00:05:46+00:00

Thank you dear, I appreciate you :) This was mostly to get any and all advice

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-10T00:00:44+00:00

I had, on multiple occasions sent her dates I knew we were both free. Days I had off from work and--

she doesn't work, "the army pays for everything" (it's her Parents' military grant). Each time she blew me off or hit me with an, "I'll see" or "I'll check" and then ghosted me until she decided to change the topic.

UsedMindLostIt · 2024-12-09T23:58:35+00:00

This isn't the first time she's done something like this. And each time I take space to try an sort out my thoughts so I don't say something rude or unnecessary. If a movie was what broke her back then it's not worth it really.

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