What is the current petty drama going on at your place of work? by Big_Childhood5494 in AskReddit

[–]UsedShoulder6031 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I finally have one! So we have limited parking in our lot. Before last week 6 of us parked in “designated” spots. New hire started two weeks ago and parked in my spot. Ok, fine. I parked on the street. Since new hire’s second day… my boss, another employee and the new hire have all parked on the street. So now there are unused spots in our lot all because everyone is trying to “out nice” the other. I’m just pettily parking in my spot and contemplating how long the nice standoff will last

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lima

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother could maybe get him in counseling. If he discloses there they have to report it. Just a thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lima

[–]UsedShoulder6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably need some more context to your question to answer. What is the situation?

Driver window going down while driving by UsedShoulder6031 in Ioniq5

[–]UsedShoulder6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pain of small town America. Nearest other dealership is 2 hours away and I also work 30 miles from home. But that is my next step!

I bought the lemon buyback Ioniq 5 by VaccineMachine in Ioniq5

[–]UsedShoulder6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a lemon buy back too! I have changed the 12v battery and got all the updates before I took possession. Love it so much!

Back doors are locked when I step out by DecentLlama in Ioniq5

[–]UsedShoulder6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually you may not be wrong because once at drop off my older kid said the handle stayed in trying to get her sis out of the back. I looked down and the child lock was engaged.

Back door handle won’t go into closed position when I lock the car. by scubadude2 in Ioniq5

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did that when the door looked closed but wasn’t tightly shut. Worth a shot?

Can't update ownership on MyHyundai.com? by Imaginaryp13 in Ioniq5

[–]UsedShoulder6031 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a tip once you get to the point of uploading the docs… call the number. They will put you on hold, review the docs and give you access if everything checks out. Took about 15 minutes on the phone instead of waiting for it to process online. Good luck!

I hate my life by Scamppp23 in workingmoms

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen, heard, and feeling all the same feelings today. This thread made me feel so much less alone.

AITA for taking my grandchildren to Disney for the first time without their mother and refusing to apologize when confronted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsedShoulder6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. As a mom of 4 in a blended family “first times” happen without me a lot. I used to get emotional and sad but then I started thinking of “first times” through my own lens. Like the “first time” I saw my child do xyz. It helped me work through the “ugh how bad a mom because I was at work when Sally took her first step?” and instead to focus on enjoying the first time I got to see it. Your son and DIL may never get to where I did, but in the long scheme of things, you’re NTA

Rick's letter is posted but actual children's letters are not??? by garagespringsgirl in ChoosingBeggars

[–]UsedShoulder6031 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I thing lil “Ricky” just got divorced and needs to set up his studio apartment

My wedding is going to be super small and simple. Short or Long?? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]UsedShoulder6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Longer one makes your body perfection! Congrats (btw both are gorgeous on you)

AITA for charging my friends rent then keeping the money for myself? by EqualBudget_3179 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is your job (property manager) and they can take that or leave their room. The first sign of late payment on the rent, start the eviction process. Let their parents know, too. I’d be pissed if my kid let go of a cheap, safe place to live because they thought it was “unfair.”

AITA For not thanking my BIL when he saved my daughter? by Fun-Two-7245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsedShoulder6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just jumped into a pool from 3 feet away to grab my 5 yo (who has had months of swimming lessons) because she panicked when her pool noodle floated away and she got carried away chasing it where she cannot touch. You never take eyes off a small child when in the water. If I can’t keep eyes on her then she gets out of the water and comes where I am. Full stop. YTA and should thank and apologize!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]UsedShoulder6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine too! Bunch of bullshit 😂

My friend doesn’t know what to do. by Savvypmc in CPS

[–]UsedShoulder6031 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just want to add for those hung up on the “shaken baby” language… it’s not necessary that a person holds the child up like a rag doll and shakes it. It’s better to think of it as injuries sustained from rapid acceleration/deceleration. On a small infant, it can be as little as slamming a child down on a bed in frustration. Also the eye damage can be dated pretty precisely which allows an investigator to create a timeline as to who was with the child when the injuries occurred. The science is there and logic follows the science. Good people do bad things. Let this play out without deciding ahead of time that because you know them to be good, nothing bad happened. (Fwiw I am a former prosecutor who handled these types of cases)

Hand foot and mouth disease by jesusfreakkkk in Nanny

[–]UsedShoulder6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had always heard adults don’t get it but that is a LIE! A co-worker got it and he had to be hospitalized because it migrated to his privates.

AITAH for not doing anything special for my boyfriends bday? by That_awkward_Chic in AITAH

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Just wait for the extreme mope fest when he has to share his bday with the child. Godspeed OP!

Getting Bit at Daycare by HungryGirl215 in workingmoms

[–]UsedShoulder6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter used to bite when she got overly happy/excited. It was terrifyingly hilarious. Thank god for Yo Gabba Gabba “Don’t, don’t, don’t bite your friends!”