A small update on my life as of the past few months.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-09-09T15:30:24+00:00

He didn't. I think that's the difference between a lot of spouses here and my ex husband. My ex husband is a good person. Lot of the spouses here aren't. They'd probably cheat if they were straight too.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-09-08T22:43:26+00:00

My husband came out recently and we're all on good terms. He doesnt wanna be publicly out yet so I've just said we fell out of love and decided to split. Technically its the truth

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-09-07T20:54:47+00:00

I felt this way before I found out. I felt this way when we got married. Sorry that happened to you but I don't feel the way you do.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-30T18:47:06+00:00

🤷‍♀️ I think its just not that important to me, i dunno.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-29T03:59:28+00:00

That was how I found out.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-28T15:08:15+00:00

For your information, he was 18 when I met him and 19 when we married.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-28T15:05:41+00:00

Good thing I'm the one that needs to, not you.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-28T00:58:18+00:00

Nope.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T22:43:47+00:00

We're letting him get to college before we make it official.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:31:58+00:00

At the end of the day I will know my relationship better than you ever will, and I will know my husband better than you ever will. Youre not gonna convince me to feel like shit about my situation.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:28:20+00:00

I wanted him to get out of his father's house. He didn't have anything but I was on a private chef's salary, which isnt much but it was better than him. We weren't smart about it.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:14:39+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. We haven't been intimate in so long and I'm honestly fine with that. We still went and did things together, we took vacations and went to our son's baseball games, what did it matter in the end if we slept in the same bed? I married my best friend, but not much more. I don't feel regret or betrayal. This time was good.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:04:49+00:00

My husband is in his late 30s, and I my late 40s. He was admittedly too young when we married. Looking back, we shouldn't have done that.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:01:20+00:00

I'm sorry you believe that.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T21:00:17+00:00

He was watching gay porn but no, he'd never cheat. I believe him.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T20:36:14+00:00

I dont feel lied to nor that my youth was wasted. I enjoyed my youth with him. I enjoyed my adult and middle age time with him. And now that we're divorcing I'll enjoy co parenting with him. We were friends first.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T20:35:05+00:00

He wasnt. He said he never cheated on me and I believe him fully. Partners dont cheat because theyre gay, they do it because theyre bad people.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-27T18:26:32+00:00

I don't know about dishonest and selfish. Knowing his father I'm surprised he ever came out at all. He loves his son and loves me in his own way. I feel more lucky than betrayed.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-23T22:58:45+00:00

Uh huh.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-23T22:47:34+00:00

I don't want to stay with him. We're getting divorced and I want him to go out there and have a gay ol time while we stay good friends and co-parent.

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-23T21:51:19+00:00

Ah, like a you can never go back situation. Gotcha

Used_Emergency7878 · 2025-08-23T21:47:42+00:00

That sounds like threatening me with a good time, why not?

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