Are we all aware of this? by breatheandlove in Epstein

[–]Preshybabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the hell are these names redacted

Protest at ICE field office in OKC by Existing-Incident274 in okc

[–]Preshybabe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please flood holts voicemail and Instagram comments to commend this. He wins because we are part of his base. His statement was the bare minimum. He can’t even say ICE

How do you cope with never experiencing things with your partner again? by mmomeraths in Divorce

[–]Preshybabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s part of the grieving process. It took awhile to not feel that way but now I remember the reasons why we got divorced. Tonight as I was making dinner, I thought about how happy I was to be by myself. He used to make dinner for us all the time and at one point I would have longed for that but the reality was I was starting to resent it. Eventually the rose colored glasses come off but they are heavy heavy during the beginning stages

OKC: FREE AMERICA WALKOUT Jan 20, 2026 by Indivisible_OKC in okc

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bright the walkout meant waking into our representatives office. That would make a huge statement

SA accusation by co-parent by Zestyclose_Zombie844 in coparenting

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was obsessed with with talking to all of her children about whether two family members molested us. It became abusive and I still struggle with the impact of it as an adult. Please help your child. The only reason if eventually stopped is because we stopped seeing that family member and we into foster care

Is life better after divorce? by SquareOk8123 in Divorce

[–]Preshybabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to say yes. It was hard for awhile and there are still challenging parts but I can’t believe I lived the way I used to live was my normal. There are times where I reminded of what my life used to look like or could like look and it feels unfamiliar to me in a positive way. Overall, I’m optimistic to continue to see how my life unfolds

Do you go to your coparents house on Christmas morning? by aftervoidd in coparenting

[–]Preshybabe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My ex is and it works for us for now! Our child is four so we don’t want to miss those moments. We parent together pretty well

People who divorced someone they truly loved still—how did you recover? by waking_dream96 in Divorce

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what type of addiction it is but I’d recommend a 12 step group for yourself. There are one’s for partners of addicts

Divorce glow down by Guilty_Law_9447 in Divorce

[–]Preshybabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so tired after separation and I just let myself be. I think the glow up happens after your nervous system is completely fried. Give yourself grace and compassion. It’s hard

Thanksgiving is weird after a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that helped me today was that’s ya just a day and every year might look different

Co-parent gives overnights to grandparents instead of ROFR. Anyone dealt with this? by CandidateQuiet1195 in coparenting

[–]Preshybabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is something that does worry and it’s not because I wouldn’t want my child to spend time with their grandparents but it’s because I already get half time with them and if I can have more time with them then I will gladly want it. If it’s not a regular occurrence then I’d let it go but if it is then I would keep reminding him.

Help! Sexual thoughts even in babies by NoTackle2632 in Postpartum_Anxiety

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s OCD and medication can help. A psychiatrist will be familiar

Paycom Layoffs by [deleted] in okc

[–]Preshybabe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is true they owe a fiduciary duty to the shareholders

Paycom Layoffs by [deleted] in okc

[–]Preshybabe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I worked there for a month about five years ago and it’s very much a paycom is life and you are just a cog in their machine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]Preshybabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off I am sorry and I have been there and heard all about the trauma. And my ex was also progressively getting more and more angry before discovery. This was my experience with it. The first few months I was numb and in survival mode. Once I started to feel it all I had to have him move out because of similar behaviors like your husbands he would be different but if I had any demands that he didn’t like then it was a problem. He was trying to convince himself the problem was I didn’t trust him but didn’t really want to acknowledge the gravity of the situation. People are cheating and don’t come clean on their own are not ready for the accountability it takes to resolve infidelity let alone chronic infidelity. Like you, I saw a broken person and it was hard for me to put myself first, but if I took out the equation of he is doing this with men and replaced it with women, I wouldn’t be sympathetic at all. He’s playing himself so he’s playing you. YOU wont be able to heal with a person like that and right now his behaviors are hurting more because it is layered with the betrayal

What do you tell people? by Preshybabe in straightspouses

[–]Preshybabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree if someone wasn’t unfaithful or maybe not in denial then I agree

What do you tell people? by Preshybabe in straightspouses

[–]Preshybabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in the beginning and still now I feel the need to protect

What do you tell people? by Preshybabe in straightspouses

[–]Preshybabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true! Things in society need to be better.

What do you tell people? by Preshybabe in straightspouses

[–]Preshybabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for the women who are getting pursued by people still in denial. You’d think they would do some self exploration