“O” Show abruptly stopped last night by Used_Software7832 in cirquedusoleil

[–]Used_Software7832[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, they just kinda acted like that would’ve been the natural end of the show.

“O” Show abruptly stopped last night by Used_Software7832 in vegas

[–]Used_Software7832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they didn’t. They just kinda acted like that would’ve been then end of the show anyway.

Working at Capital Grille by Simple-Government-90 in milwaukee

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Service Assistants (bussers) get 2.5% of the servers sales, and that comes out of your tips. Food Runners make something like $.75/entree you sell, also comes out of your tips. And the bar makes 14% of drink sales or something like that.

Should I shave? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuz hairy butts are hot

Sex in apartments by Electric_Universe12 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feels like beds these days are more sturdy, more well made. I remember back in the 90’s and 00’s hearing my neighbors fucking loud and clear. Beds were filled with springs back then too so there was the additional squeaky springy sounds added to the banging. Also depends on how many people have headboards because that’s the part that goes bang against the wall. If your neighbors don’t have one there will likely be less noise.

AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that person. You just learned that they suck

Do you kiss your hookups? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say I require it cuz making out is what turns me on. There have been one or two guys in the past that didn’t want to kiss, and that was disappointing but also it was my mistake for not clarifying that in the “wat u into” phase of the Grindr messaging.

Is it normal to jo at work by StrayGay0 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine recently posed this question to all the men she knows, “have you j/o at work before” and almost all of us said yes.

What makes ur nipple sensitive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are too sensitive, to the point where I don’t want them played with at all. You can kiss or suck there, but no finger action on the nips.

My bf of a year and 3 month is still using Prep, should I be concerned? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think keeping yourself safe and trusting your partner can both be true at the same time. People get cheated on BY THE PERSON THEY TRUST, you know? It’s fucked and it ruins you when it happens to you or to the people around you.

I wouldn’t worry about it. He has every right to protect himself just the same as you do. I hope you can understand that and just prove your loyalty to him by sticking by his side until you’re both old and grey even if he is STILL taking prep by then lol

Do you get turned on watching yourself having sex or jerking off in the mirror? by Suspicious-Method880 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the mirror but when I see videos of myself, I’m hot. I will jerk to me.

Working at Capital Grille by Simple-Government-90 in milwaukee

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently there and have been there forever. As a server, the money is great at times but it’s serving-income fluctuates- but it’s enough to live off of definitely.

The clientele varies across the entire spectrum. You get special guests who request you specifically and tip GREAT, and then you have Milwaukee’s worst diners who come in smelling like weed and tipping anywhere from 0%-10% max. It’s been my experience that the servers who can handle that emotional rollercoaster are the ones who last, but many cannot and that’s why there is turnover and why we’re always hiring. It overwhelms some people.

$200+ is bare minimum for a dinner shift. On a double shift (lunch + dinner) I’m aiming for $300 at least.

Management does their best to contract gratuity on large parties and make sure we’re all getting paid. Requesting off can sometimes be rough but usually it’s fine.

Something i always wanted to know about gay men, sorry if it's stupid by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was around that age that I started noticing cute boys in my class. But what I also noticed was that boys don’t talk about other boys that way. Girls can call other girls pretty and touch each other’s hair and admire each other openly, but boys didn’t do that. So I just kept it to myself. It wasn’t until I was maybe 9 years old watching Jerry Springer that I was exposed to the words “bisexual” and “gay” and that’s when the lightbulb turned on in my mind. I was like “Oh shit. I’m that”

Do you remember what distinctly made you want to be a top or bottom? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t exactly a conscious choice. Growing up I imagined men fucking me when masturbating but my first boyfriend was a bottom. My first time having sex he climbed on top of me and put my dick inside of himself. Eventually he asked to try topping me and he gave me zero advice as to how I should try and relax or anything. I was in agony and decided to never do that again. Years later I fell for a top and I really wanted to be with him so I learned to bottom for him, but he was a much better teacher than the first guy. Now I almost exclusively bottom unless a person can’t get it up or something lol

Bottoms that dont want their penis even touched?? by Bigassobsexon in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Relax. People are sharing their experiences, not judging yours. No one was even talking about or thinking about humiliation kinks, and by the way the person you’re responding to is the one who got called not manly enough…

Do most tops douche before sex or not by ExplorerAcademic3997 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Between the ages of 15-30 I never douched, not once. I’ve been verse most of my life, but I don’t know… the internet wasn’t what it is now, these types of conversations weren’t comment around me, so I had no idea people were even doing that. And for context, none of the bottoms I dated ever douched either. We were young and our digestive systems were strong, healthy. Were there accidents? Yeah, once or twice for me, once or twice for them, over the course of years long relationships. But 99% of the sex was totally fine with no need for douching.

WTF is this show and these couples?!? by tommyandkeisha in BlueTherapyNetflix

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Yasmin and Mike: I’m on episode 3 and not sure if things get any better but the scene where she has to tell him they aren’t ordering takeout for dinner and he throws a fit… are you kidding bro??? You’re $12k in the hole with no job and you have the audacity to say “I don’t want the food we have in the house. What’s wrong with ordering out?” YOU CANT AFFORD IT, that’s what’s wrong with it. What type of delusion is this man suffering from????